Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Do you use condoms?

Do you use condoms?

  • Always, no condom is a dealbreaker

    Votes: 31 58.5%

  • Almost always, will leave it off on rare occassions

    Votes: 13 24.5%

  • Hardly, unless she really wants me to

    Votes: 6 11.3%

  • Never / Condoms are a dealbreaker for me

    Votes: 3 5.7%
  • Total voters
    53
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bigjohnson

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theunflushables said:
Nope, dead serious. I do not want kids, ever.

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So I decide to take responsibility for myself. No need to call me a liar or inexperienced.
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So you got a vasectomy then?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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rocksoff

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After contracting Herpes and having A few baby scares I just straight have anxiety thinking about sex with no condom......WRAP IT UP or get ready to change diapers and take valtrex. I dont tell any chick that I have herpes , but I would never screw them w/o a rubber, chicks are different though theyre just not gonna tell you anything at all and if you screw them w/o a condom they dont give a fuuck
 
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theunflushables

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bigjohnson said:
So you got a vasectomy then?
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No. I'm not considering that in case I ever do decide I want children. Yes, I know it can be reversed but why go through two surgeries when I can go through none and protect myself by wrapping it up every time.
 
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theunflushables said:
No. I'm not considering that in case I ever do decide I want children. Yes, I know it can be reversed but why go through two surgeries when I can go through none and protect myself by wrapping it up every time.
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cuz its way, way better without a condom.
 
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theunflushables

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Ice882 said:
cuz its way, way better without a condom.
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I'm sure it is. But at this point in my life a kid would just mess up everything (as little as it may be) that I got going for me. I'd rather focus on finishing school, landing a good job and getting a sweet place. Maybe in another 5 to 10 years when I'm in my mid to late 30s that will change. For now, though I'm going to play it extra cautious and wear a condom.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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