"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Do you use condoms?

Do you use condoms?

  • Always, no condom is a dealbreaker

    Votes: 31 58.5%
  • Almost always, will leave it off on rare occassions

    Votes: 13 24.5%
  • Hardly, unless she really wants me to

    Votes: 6 11.3%
  • Never / Condoms are a dealbreaker for me

    Votes: 3 5.7%

  • Total voters
    53

bigjohnson

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theunflushables said:
Nope, dead serious. I do not want kids, ever.

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So I decide to take responsibility for myself. No need to call me a liar or inexperienced.

So you got a vasectomy then?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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rocksoff

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After contracting Herpes and having A few baby scares I just straight have anxiety thinking about sex with no condom......WRAP IT UP or get ready to change diapers and take valtrex. I dont tell any chick that I have herpes , but I would never screw them w/o a rubber, chicks are different though theyre just not gonna tell you anything at all and if you screw them w/o a condom they dont give a fuuck
 

theunflushables

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bigjohnson said:
So you got a vasectomy then?
No. I'm not considering that in case I ever do decide I want children. Yes, I know it can be reversed but why go through two surgeries when I can go through none and protect myself by wrapping it up every time.
 

Ice882

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theunflushables said:
No. I'm not considering that in case I ever do decide I want children. Yes, I know it can be reversed but why go through two surgeries when I can go through none and protect myself by wrapping it up every time.

cuz its way, way better without a condom.
 

theunflushables

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Ice882 said:
cuz its way, way better without a condom.
I'm sure it is. But at this point in my life a kid would just mess up everything (as little as it may be) that I got going for me. I'd rather focus on finishing school, landing a good job and getting a sweet place. Maybe in another 5 to 10 years when I'm in my mid to late 30s that will change. For now, though I'm going to play it extra cautious and wear a condom.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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