"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Do you use condoms?

Do you use condoms?

  • Always, no condom is a dealbreaker

    Votes: 31 58.5%
  • Almost always, will leave it off on rare occassions

    Votes: 13 24.5%
  • Hardly, unless she really wants me to

    Votes: 6 11.3%
  • Never / Condoms are a dealbreaker for me

    Votes: 3 5.7%

  • Total voters
    53

bigjohnson

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theunflushables said:
Nope, dead serious. I do not want kids, ever.

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So I decide to take responsibility for myself. No need to call me a liar or inexperienced.

So you got a vasectomy then?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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rocksoff

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After contracting Herpes and having A few baby scares I just straight have anxiety thinking about sex with no condom......WRAP IT UP or get ready to change diapers and take valtrex. I dont tell any chick that I have herpes , but I would never screw them w/o a rubber, chicks are different though theyre just not gonna tell you anything at all and if you screw them w/o a condom they dont give a fuuck
 

theunflushables

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bigjohnson said:
So you got a vasectomy then?
No. I'm not considering that in case I ever do decide I want children. Yes, I know it can be reversed but why go through two surgeries when I can go through none and protect myself by wrapping it up every time.
 

Ice882

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theunflushables said:
No. I'm not considering that in case I ever do decide I want children. Yes, I know it can be reversed but why go through two surgeries when I can go through none and protect myself by wrapping it up every time.

cuz its way, way better without a condom.
 

theunflushables

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Ice882 said:
cuz its way, way better without a condom.
I'm sure it is. But at this point in my life a kid would just mess up everything (as little as it may be) that I got going for me. I'd rather focus on finishing school, landing a good job and getting a sweet place. Maybe in another 5 to 10 years when I'm in my mid to late 30s that will change. For now, though I'm going to play it extra cautious and wear a condom.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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