"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Do you use condoms?

Do you use condoms?

  • Always, no condom is a dealbreaker

    Votes: 31 58.5%
  • Almost always, will leave it off on rare occassions

    Votes: 13 24.5%
  • Hardly, unless she really wants me to

    Votes: 6 11.3%
  • Never / Condoms are a dealbreaker for me

    Votes: 3 5.7%

  • Total voters
    53

bigjohnson

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theunflushables said:
Nope, dead serious. I do not want kids, ever.

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So I decide to take responsibility for myself. No need to call me a liar or inexperienced.

So you got a vasectomy then?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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rocksoff

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After contracting Herpes and having A few baby scares I just straight have anxiety thinking about sex with no condom......WRAP IT UP or get ready to change diapers and take valtrex. I dont tell any chick that I have herpes , but I would never screw them w/o a rubber, chicks are different though theyre just not gonna tell you anything at all and if you screw them w/o a condom they dont give a fuuck
 

theunflushables

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bigjohnson said:
So you got a vasectomy then?
No. I'm not considering that in case I ever do decide I want children. Yes, I know it can be reversed but why go through two surgeries when I can go through none and protect myself by wrapping it up every time.
 

Ice882

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theunflushables said:
No. I'm not considering that in case I ever do decide I want children. Yes, I know it can be reversed but why go through two surgeries when I can go through none and protect myself by wrapping it up every time.

cuz its way, way better without a condom.
 

theunflushables

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Ice882 said:
cuz its way, way better without a condom.
I'm sure it is. But at this point in my life a kid would just mess up everything (as little as it may be) that I got going for me. I'd rather focus on finishing school, landing a good job and getting a sweet place. Maybe in another 5 to 10 years when I'm in my mid to late 30s that will change. For now, though I'm going to play it extra cautious and wear a condom.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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