Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Metro3pilot

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Let's say you have a LJBF situation

and you make an obvious attempt to make her jealous, by mentioning a date you have upcoming and go into detail about it ..I mean it's an obvious over the top attempt, but it also happens to be true

is it still effective at creating jealousy

I mean shiyat I'm gonna give this other chick a chance but I wanna sink the Ljbf's battleship
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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If there is no natural attraction there, nothing you can do or say would change it or make her jealous.
 

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I mean shiyat I'm gonna give this other chick a chance but I wanna sink the Ljbf's battleship
No, the reality is that you want revenge for being rejected. Even assuming that your true goal for making her jealous is breaking out of the friend zone, it's still a waste of time. Why not put the first one out of your mind, and concentrate on the chica that's interested in you?
 

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it IS possible to break out of the LBJF zone (assuming there was some attraction in the first place). But you would have to be a master game player to do it - and it will take a long time.
 

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You all have good points

the best point being

" it's still a waste of time. Why not put the first one out of your mind, and concentrate on the chica that's interested in you? "

I guess I like the challenge when I'm rejected of turning it around .... maybe one day I will learn I just waisting time

this is her response anyway

" I'm glad that you have a date. I hope that she's a nice person and that things go well for you both. Take Care. "
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Hmmmm sounds like beating your head against the wall to me...

Best to spend your time more effectively. If you have someone who's "just a friend" then let it be as it is. There are plenty of ladies in the world, why waste time hitting on one that has a LJBF mindset. If she's going to come around she'll do it on her own.
 

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Ok, if you really want to turn things around and get yourself out of the LJBF zone, click here, read and do:

GANGI GAMES

Don`t EVER, EVER, EVER, EVER, EVER tell a girl that you`re gaming that you`re seeing other women, that`s for the regular girls that you`re seeing.

If you`re busy and unavailable, the girl you`re gaming will AUTOMATICALLY assume that you`re seeing other women. Subtlety and playing it smooth will serve you far better in this situation.

If your "friend" happens to see you with other women, all the better.

Have fun and keep us posted.

Cheers,
Mav
 

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I ran into her yesterday at the store. she had quite the little attitude.

I think it's time to pull the plug and work on the girl showing interest,

I think ganji works, it has for me 90% of the time, I always end up going soft when the contact resumes.

I will let you know

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