I dont think they think like that at all.
I think their first though is, "would I **** this guy". First based on looks and if they find you attractive. This is done within a few seconds. Then they think about what everyone else would think if they found out that they ****ed you. Cos, like, heaven forbid her social circle disapproved.
Once they start talking to you, then you need to cross off requirements on their checklists. Because they are women, those checklists are not set in stone either. They change like the wind on a cold day. They hold as much weight as flat earth theory. They are rational constructs an emotional creature melds to her whims to suit her hormones and mood.
If at first you fail, then she finds out that you are rich you could be back in the game. Her checklist adjusts. Likewise, if at first you fail and then she sees you making out with a bombshell, you are back in the game. Cos, like if that skank likes you, then you must be, like, Awesome. If at first you fail, and then she finds out that you are a drug dealer and sell stolen bikes, you are back in the game.
They perform for us so that we can give them attention. This is like porn to them. They need that attention to see if we meet their criteria. After that, we are performing for them. If we meet their criteria at that time, we get to smash them.
