"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Do you think with sex workers' prospects plumeting because of the Corona Virus, bachelor men will be asked to "man up" and marry them?

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Poonani Maker

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Well, the stock market (the source of many men's finances - not mine), is sliced out 25% so but you know women, they never would drop their value even if they're in their 40s they can't fathom dropping their view of themselves because they're so special. This goes for wives, girlfriends, dating, the whole gamut. Once they've achieved certain men willing to dish out more than their value, they can't "go back." Oh no. They think money just grows on trees.
 

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Do not get how your title to the article relates to the content of the article itself. There is nothing mentioned about bachelor men being asked to "man up" and marry them and that's clickbait. What the article does mention is that poor street-level sex workers are hit the hardest and will end up in homeless shelters or lose custody of their children, while high-class escorts have savings and can weather this storm, and other types of escorts have other part-time work with legitimate jobs might also weather the storm.

The only thing really interesting is how sex work is just another fact of life in modern society where women use this to keep custody of their children? (i.e. sounds like the movie "Florida Project" 2017). What will likely occur is these escorts will go online and make a business out of exposing themselves infront of a webcam or other online set-up where no personal interaction is necessary.

However, any sort of "Pretty Woman" scenario I don't think is likely. These things don't tend to go well.

The title is a bit silly because nobody is going to advise anyone of any worth to marry a sex-worker because their social value will nose-dive if people get what the history of the girl is. That would be a write-off. Why would you put this on a title?
 

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Covid19 already brings enough complications in our everyday life and working habits, I dont believe any player needs to increase the difficulty of the game from hard to infernal.
 
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