"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Do you think VD is surging in the older generations because chicks at that stage of life cannot get a man's attention without putting out liberally?

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Interesting mentality your question presumes it’s women’s doing?
 

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Hurray for octogenarians and all points beyond if so. That so many folks are still frisky at the age indicates that our quality of life is pretty damned good
 

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I was reading this, and it got me interested:
my opinion: Maybe being OVER is finally OVER at that age? :rolleyes:
I think the doctor that was quoted got it right when they said this:

People are just living longer and having sex for longer than they used to,” she said. “Men have benefited from erectile dysfunction drugs, and women have benefited from hormone therapies that are able to help them maintain a more pleasant sex life.”

The only thing I'd add to that is there are less people in marriages than ever before. That leads to more sexual partners which increases the chance of spreading STI's.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I think the doctor that was quoted got it right when they said this:

People are just living longer and having sex for longer than they used to,” she said. “Men have benefited from erectile dysfunction drugs, and women have benefited from hormone therapies that are able to help them maintain a more pleasant sex life.”

The only thing I'd add to that is there are less people in marriages than ever before. That leads to more sexual partners which increases the chance of spreading STI's.
Senior citizens today are healthy and vibrant enough to partake in regular sexy time, unlike people in this age bracket as recently as The 90s, who mostlybspent their remaining years binging daytime TV. This is an improvement to be celebrated
 

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Hi MDJ,
Thanks for your timely post....Very few older Women are into random Svex...Those that are can be pretty wild...On my Dancing scene,one Academic in her early Eighties,regularly leaves the Dance with some younger Guy,does her horizontal Tango in the back seat of her car,comes back half an hour later hair Tousled,clothing missarranged,straightens herself out in the Wash room,then goes home to hubby LOL.
 

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Hi MDJ,
Thanks for your timely post....Very few older Women are into random Svex...Those that are can be pretty wild...On my Dancing scene,one Academic in her early Eighties,regularly leaves the Dance with some younger Guy,does her horizontal Tango in the back seat of her car,comes back half an hour later hair Tousled,clothing missarranged,straightens herself out in the Wash room,then goes home to hubby LOL.
Why is doing this. She should have some class about her. Maybe she was a hoe back in the day too? How does she look? Maybe her husband does not even care anymore. At 80 I cant imagine he would. He is probably tired of banging her and has a young thing on the side. Still though what is her dysfunction? lol.....
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Why is doing this. She should have some class about her. Maybe she was a hoe back in the day too? How does she look? Maybe her husband does not even care anymore. At 80 I cant imagine he would. He is probably tired of banging her and has a young thing on the side. Still though what is her dysfunction? lol.....
Hi Pandora,
You really do have strange ideas about Women,they may have lesser needs than us,but many still have yearnings say every fortnight...That does not make any of them a "Hoe"....Far from being "dysfunctional" this Lady would seem to be adopting a pragmatic approach to ensure a fulfilling life...Her Husband though compus mentus is ninety+ and has health problems.
 
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Hi MDJ,
You really do have strange ideas about Women,they may have lesser needs than us,but many still have yearnings say every fortnight...That does not make any of them a "Hoe"....Far from being "dysfunctional" this Lady would seem to be adopting a pragmatic approach to ensure a fulfilling life...Her Husband though compus mentus is ninety+ and has health problems.
Oh okay. The husband cant give her what she needs. The reason I am so judgemental is because I find it especially horrifying when wives cheat on their husband with random guys. Im like " noooooo!!! why?". Vicarious sadness.
 

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Hi Pandora,
Sorry for confusing you and MDJ....Yeah,I get your take on this,but I am sure that she justifies her behaviour,on the basis that,marriage is a transactional arrangement in which she was short changed...Speaking for myself I would not condemn in her what I forgive in myself.
 
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