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“Pick Me Girl” — The New Term Being Used to Shame Women
It’s not OK, and we need to stop it
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Do you think ugly women are shaming attractive women by calling them "pick me girls"?
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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
devilkingx2
Master Don Juan
It's the same thing as men calling each other simps imo. Sometimes warranted, sometimes not.
Although I've never seen a justified use of the term "pick me girl". I think as men we all want women who actually like men and try to please them lol.
Although I've never seen a justified use of the term "pick me girl". I think as men we all want women who actually like men and try to please them lol.
metalwater
Master Don Juan
about 40/60. 40% boost, 60 percent cut, and crab.
for women, it's about 1 and 99, 1% boost each other.
mixed.
90% of men boost women.
10 or 20% of women boost men.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
AureliusMaximus
Master Don Juan
Always consider source...“Pick Me Girl” — The New Term Being Used to Shame Women
It’s not OK, and we need to stop itmedium.com
If you call this author chick pretty, then I suggest that you need to go to the optician and buy new glasses.
People will also dress stuff up as well to big themselves up/put others down.
Unattractive/fat women will say they don't like certain bars/clubs: 'Don;t like it there, its full of stuck up people'. May hold some water, but I usually read that as you know you won;t get much attention, will be one of the least attractive so kid yourselves otherwise. Or they'll say a good looking man has 'no personality', mainly as a comfort blanket for the man not likely to find them remotely attractive, so they're doing the rejection.
Men do it to about other men too. For example if someone is muscular, heard men say things like 'yeah, but he has a small c*ck'. Similar if person has nice car. Or if the person has made loads of money, 'I'd rather have a life' etc as if they could just wake up tomorrow and earn loads themselves.
Unattractive/fat women will say they don't like certain bars/clubs: 'Don;t like it there, its full of stuck up people'. May hold some water, but I usually read that as you know you won;t get much attention, will be one of the least attractive so kid yourselves otherwise. Or they'll say a good looking man has 'no personality', mainly as a comfort blanket for the man not likely to find them remotely attractive, so they're doing the rejection.
Men do it to about other men too. For example if someone is muscular, heard men say things like 'yeah, but he has a small c*ck'. Similar if person has nice car. Or if the person has made loads of money, 'I'd rather have a life' etc as if they could just wake up tomorrow and earn loads themselves.
metalwater
Master Don Juan
perfect, exactly as you tell it. these are the exact guys I have had issues with. it's best to eliminate them from the environment.
alas, these guys win in the short and medium-term until you or I get ahold of them or one of our men does. most of them know what they are doing and are good at it. so many young ones are trying to be them...