MatureDJ
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“Pick Me Girl” — The New Term Being Used to Shame Women
It’s not OK, and we need to stop it
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Do you think ugly women are shaming attractive women by calling them "pick me girls"?
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
devilkingx2
Master Don Juan
It's the same thing as men calling each other simps imo. Sometimes warranted, sometimes not.
Although I've never seen a justified use of the term "pick me girl". I think as men we all want women who actually like men and try to please them lol.
Although I've never seen a justified use of the term "pick me girl". I think as men we all want women who actually like men and try to please them lol.
metalwater
Master Don Juan
about 40/60. 40% boost, 60 percent cut, and crab.
for women, it's about 1 and 99, 1% boost each other.
mixed.
90% of men boost women.
10 or 20% of women boost men.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
AureliusMaximus
Master Don Juan
Always consider source...“Pick Me Girl” — The New Term Being Used to Shame Women
It’s not OK, and we need to stop itmedium.com
If you call this author chick pretty, then I suggest that you need to go to the optician and buy new glasses.
People will also dress stuff up as well to big themselves up/put others down.
Unattractive/fat women will say they don't like certain bars/clubs: 'Don;t like it there, its full of stuck up people'. May hold some water, but I usually read that as you know you won;t get much attention, will be one of the least attractive so kid yourselves otherwise. Or they'll say a good looking man has 'no personality', mainly as a comfort blanket for the man not likely to find them remotely attractive, so they're doing the rejection.
Men do it to about other men too. For example if someone is muscular, heard men say things like 'yeah, but he has a small c*ck'. Similar if person has nice car. Or if the person has made loads of money, 'I'd rather have a life' etc as if they could just wake up tomorrow and earn loads themselves.
Unattractive/fat women will say they don't like certain bars/clubs: 'Don;t like it there, its full of stuck up people'. May hold some water, but I usually read that as you know you won;t get much attention, will be one of the least attractive so kid yourselves otherwise. Or they'll say a good looking man has 'no personality', mainly as a comfort blanket for the man not likely to find them remotely attractive, so they're doing the rejection.
Men do it to about other men too. For example if someone is muscular, heard men say things like 'yeah, but he has a small c*ck'. Similar if person has nice car. Or if the person has made loads of money, 'I'd rather have a life' etc as if they could just wake up tomorrow and earn loads themselves.
metalwater
Master Don Juan
perfect, exactly as you tell it. these are the exact guys I have had issues with. it's best to eliminate them from the environment.
alas, these guys win in the short and medium-term until you or I get ahold of them or one of our men does. most of them know what they are doing and are good at it. so many young ones are trying to be them...