"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Do you think this is too bold?

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Quick background: I was supposed to go to her place to give her a massage (happy ending implied) and she flaked on me 2-3 times for various reasons, and I'm supposed to play tennis with her tomorrow...

I will be texting her: "Hey let's go to a motel instead of playing tennis"

Way I see it, worse that can happen is she'll refuse, at which point I'll next her...

Any opinions?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Why not play tennis with her then tell her to have a shower at your place? or you at hers
 
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That's like more of a shocker which is PROBABLY not going to work. But hell, why not. I mean shock her and have fun with her reaction. If she keeps flaking you might as well not take her too seriously. I say do whatever you feel like.
 
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Talk about sounding sleazy... Bold is not bad WHEN COMBINED WITH GOOD FACTORS. Your idea here just sounds plain sleazy. Not sexy, sleazy.
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How do you differentiate between the two- sleazy and sexy?

Girls call guys i know- that so much its rediculous.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Why don't you just flake at her for the tennis match?
She flaked 3 times in a row,do you really expect to get something from her except a waste of time?

Have fun and see her reaction when you tell her that there will be no tennis because you got a mission from the cia for tomorrow at that time.
 
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Aazman said:
How do you differentiate between the two- sleazy and sexy?

Girls call guys i know- that so much its rediculous.
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It just feels cheap and trashy to suggest taking a woman to a motel. Of course I'm not in his exact situation, I don't know EXACTLY what their relationship is at the moment, but this is my advice.

The more attraction there is, the less chance of coming off as creepy.
 
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she's playing that little game of keep the pu$$y away with you now. Just wasting time on your part.
looks to me that you're tired of playing games with her, and you should tell her exactly that. tell her you're not into playing games and you just wanna **** her brains out, I dunno it's your call.

oh yeah, i forget to add, ditch the **** @ motel idea please.
 
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Haha! A motel, huh?

Keep it even more classy and text her "Hey, let's fvck in the dark alley behind my place! Will you have change for a Twenty?"

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I say either call her out for the flaking or take your attention off of her and see if she chases.
And a motel? Seriously? In Public > Motel
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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