"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Evil 'alcoholic virgin', 59, who raped a student, 17, at knifepoint as she walked home from school is jailed for a minimum of six years
my opinion: I think that deeply encoded in the male instinct is that when sex with fertile women isn't happening, it's time to take such opportunity by force. Let's presume 2 equally incel brothers where one stays within the guard rails of civilization, while the other rapes. The civilized brother's genes die out while the rapist brother's genes survive.
 

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I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

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my opinion: I think that deeply encoded in the male instinct is that when sex with fertile women isn't happening, it's time to take such opportunity by force. Let's presume 2 equally incel brothers where one stays within the guard rails of civilization, while the other rapes. The civilized brother's genes die out while the rapist brother's genes survive.
A barbarous logic leading to a barbarity... and that is how it usually happens. The battle [for civilization] is won or lost in the mind... and our culture is becoming increasingly barbarous.
 

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Now, I am not saying that this is a good thing; I'm just saying that it is part of evolution. And I would hazard to say that the institution of marriage was instituted in part to keep the hordes of incel males from raping women.
 

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Now, I am not saying that this is a good thing; I'm just saying that it is part of evolution. And I would hazard to say that the institution of marriage was instituted in part to keep the hordes of incel males from raping women.
The concept of evolution should apply to our humanity... not to our 'genes'... a barbarous abstraction if there ever were one.

But it's a good point you raise - the breakdown of civility/ civilization. Look at the intolerant angry behavior developing in America now... towards those that hold differing political opinions. And then if feminism is a politics, you are going to get a lot of angry young men reacting against it.

We are probably heading towards anarchy... and then a 'strong man' politics. Meanwhile, men continue to fiddle while Rome burns.
 
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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