"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Do you think this is a case of "Darwin's last chance"?

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http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/art...17-walked-home-school-jailed-eight-years.html
Evil 'alcoholic virgin', 59, who raped a student, 17, at knifepoint as she walked home from school is jailed for a minimum of six years
my opinion: I think that deeply encoded in the male instinct is that when sex with fertile women isn't happening, it's time to take such opportunity by force. Let's presume 2 equally incel brothers where one stays within the guard rails of civilization, while the other rapes. The civilized brother's genes die out while the rapist brother's genes survive.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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my opinion: I think that deeply encoded in the male instinct is that when sex with fertile women isn't happening, it's time to take such opportunity by force. Let's presume 2 equally incel brothers where one stays within the guard rails of civilization, while the other rapes. The civilized brother's genes die out while the rapist brother's genes survive.
A barbarous logic leading to a barbarity... and that is how it usually happens. The battle [for civilization] is won or lost in the mind... and our culture is becoming increasingly barbarous.
 

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Now, I am not saying that this is a good thing; I'm just saying that it is part of evolution. And I would hazard to say that the institution of marriage was instituted in part to keep the hordes of incel males from raping women.
 

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Now, I am not saying that this is a good thing; I'm just saying that it is part of evolution. And I would hazard to say that the institution of marriage was instituted in part to keep the hordes of incel males from raping women.
The concept of evolution should apply to our humanity... not to our 'genes'... a barbarous abstraction if there ever were one.

But it's a good point you raise - the breakdown of civility/ civilization. Look at the intolerant angry behavior developing in America now... towards those that hold differing political opinions. And then if feminism is a politics, you are going to get a lot of angry young men reacting against it.

We are probably heading towards anarchy... and then a 'strong man' politics. Meanwhile, men continue to fiddle while Rome burns.
 
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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