"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Do you think this chick needs to "embrace her femininity" ... or just lose the blubber?

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She laments that she has been approaching men, and that by embracing her femininity, "masculine" men will start chasing her - but I think she just needs to lose the blubber to get men in general to chase her. :rolleyes:

 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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She BELIEVES "I've embrace my feminity", even tbough she's blimpish enough to make Carl Benjamin and his imitators appear like the leads in Magic Mike Part 1

Further proof that continuously interrogating the accuracy of our perceptions is a vital endeavor
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Mike32ct said:
Male (RP) dating coaches harp on masculine energy.

There are dating coaches for women that preach “feminine energy.” She probably picked it up there.
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Heterosexual humans gravitate towards specific traits in one another?!


Next, we'll learn that clients who are criminalistic in their thinking and behavior benefit far more from a shrink who employs an approach similar to the one Dr. Krakower uses with Carmela here

Than they do "standard" warmth and empathy
 
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She still probably believes she "deserves" the men she was getting when she was younger and in better shape, but reality is slapping her across the face hard right now trying to wake her up.
 
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