"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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do you think the years i will give away to study will lead me to become an AFC????

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I am twenty years old and I plan on becoming a psychiatrist the thing is i feel like the time i will spend studying i will miss my 20s and will kinda take out of the dating world for a while... finding a HB has never being a problem for me i am quite good looking a girls are hitting on me... the problem is in my younger years used to be an AFC on the inside for some reason i didnt know( all the girls i was into were totally into me some even did some crazy sh!t just to get my attention ) but weirdly i used to run away from them or when they came up to my face and told me their feelings i was always finding an excuse to avoid answering them... and that somehow attracted more girls. Anyway i found this great community and i have been better than ever with the ladies i am more confident and ive been living like a king for the past 6 months.But i think that with my career i wont be able to enjoy the dating life for a decade because of spending a lot of time studying and when i will be ready to date again a HB will be able to Brainwash me somehow
I WILL greatly appreciate your help thanks in advance
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I believe it takes about 8-10 years to go through the process until you are a licensed, practicing psychiatrist making the dough. I suggest you still fvck some girls to keep yourself sane but you will be done with the program sometime between the age of 28-34 Im guessing, right in the prime of your dating years.

You'll be bagging alot of hotties in the future and can make up the numbers then if that is what you are looking for, girls love a successful man, and love a successful DJ even more.
 
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Nevermind about women, women don't put food on your table, a roof over your head and money in your pocket. Sensible men will focus on their careers first and then social life/women second. Also, there's plenty of articles on here that deal with AFCism. So to answer your question, no dedicating the next x amount of year's to study will not make you an AFC.
 

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3countriesPlan said:
I believe it takes about 8-10 years to go through the process until you are a licensed, practicing psychiatrist making the dough. I suggest you still fvck some girls to keep yourself sane but you will be done with the program sometime between the age of 28-34 Im guessing, right in the prime of your dating years.

You'll be bagging alot of hotties in the future and can make up the numbers then if that is what you are looking for, girls love a successful man, and love a successful DJ even more.
yeah i thought of that i really shouldnt care because im pretty sure its always better to be weathy and stable than giving up for "fun"
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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perseverance said:
Nevermind about women, women don't put food on your table, a roof over your head and money in your pocket. Sensible men will focus on their careers first and then social life/women second. Also, there's plenty of articles on here that deal with AFCism. So to answer your question, no dedicating the next x amount of year's to study will not make you an AFC.
they really dont and the only thing theyll be good for will be trying to get my money for "the privilege of their pretty eyes" but that wont work on me
 

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MikeBrown30 said:
Get your life/career in order first. I'm not saying to avoid women completely, but there will be plenty of time for poon later down the track.
thanks for the advice
 
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