"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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do you think the years i will give away to study will lead me to become an AFC????

demezel

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I am twenty years old and I plan on becoming a psychiatrist the thing is i feel like the time i will spend studying i will miss my 20s and will kinda take out of the dating world for a while... finding a HB has never being a problem for me i am quite good looking a girls are hitting on me... the problem is in my younger years used to be an AFC on the inside for some reason i didnt know( all the girls i was into were totally into me some even did some crazy sh!t just to get my attention ) but weirdly i used to run away from them or when they came up to my face and told me their feelings i was always finding an excuse to avoid answering them... and that somehow attracted more girls. Anyway i found this great community and i have been better than ever with the ladies i am more confident and ive been living like a king for the past 6 months.But i think that with my career i wont be able to enjoy the dating life for a decade because of spending a lot of time studying and when i will be ready to date again a HB will be able to Brainwash me somehow
I WILL greatly appreciate your help thanks in advance
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I believe it takes about 8-10 years to go through the process until you are a licensed, practicing psychiatrist making the dough. I suggest you still fvck some girls to keep yourself sane but you will be done with the program sometime between the age of 28-34 Im guessing, right in the prime of your dating years.

You'll be bagging alot of hotties in the future and can make up the numbers then if that is what you are looking for, girls love a successful man, and love a successful DJ even more.
 
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Nevermind about women, women don't put food on your table, a roof over your head and money in your pocket. Sensible men will focus on their careers first and then social life/women second. Also, there's plenty of articles on here that deal with AFCism. So to answer your question, no dedicating the next x amount of year's to study will not make you an AFC.
 

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3countriesPlan said:
I believe it takes about 8-10 years to go through the process until you are a licensed, practicing psychiatrist making the dough. I suggest you still fvck some girls to keep yourself sane but you will be done with the program sometime between the age of 28-34 Im guessing, right in the prime of your dating years.

You'll be bagging alot of hotties in the future and can make up the numbers then if that is what you are looking for, girls love a successful man, and love a successful DJ even more.
yeah i thought of that i really shouldnt care because im pretty sure its always better to be weathy and stable than giving up for "fun"
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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perseverance said:
Nevermind about women, women don't put food on your table, a roof over your head and money in your pocket. Sensible men will focus on their careers first and then social life/women second. Also, there's plenty of articles on here that deal with AFCism. So to answer your question, no dedicating the next x amount of year's to study will not make you an AFC.
they really dont and the only thing theyll be good for will be trying to get my money for "the privilege of their pretty eyes" but that wont work on me
 

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MikeBrown30 said:
Get your life/career in order first. I'm not saying to avoid women completely, but there will be plenty of time for poon later down the track.
thanks for the advice
 
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