"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Do you think the USA military is far behind its recruiting goals because sexless men aren't motivated to put their life in danger?

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If you are a sexless male, you often lack motivation to do a lot of things. I think sexless men and obesity are major issues in military recruitment.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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If you are a sexless male, you often lack motivation to do a lot of things. I think sexless men and obesity are major issues in military recruitment.
Could be. Most of my (presumed) sexless male friends are pudgy & non-motivated.
 

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We have we even have a private military now take that for what it is
 

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In order to be willing to join the military you need to either have a strong sense of commitment to society or you believe you will get personal benefits from that wheter its money, education or you simply want some action.

Modern western men are basically neutered from being grown/bossed from women since they are kids, suffocated when they try to take initiave and neglected when they need help or guidance...if they are white they are further vilified.
They are basically made mentally, physically and sexually impotent unless they are lucky enough to find themselves in the right environment.

Now the late teen mid western guy that has been the backbone of the US army for the last decades is either unwilling and/or unable to join the armed forces.

Then we have men that are strong enough, able enough and angry enough to make amazing warriors but whos rage is directed exactly against those same institutions that they should instead "serve".
 

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I tried joining in 09 and have had some coworkers and old school buddies joined to mixed results most my black friends say don't join the army under any circumstances and none of them became officers I couldn't get in due to my eyesight barely passed ASVAB the fact that they contacted me should tell you something bonuses are at an all-time high and asvab is not that hard.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I tried joining in 09 and have had some coworkers and old school buddies joined to mixed results most my black friends say don't join the army under any circumstances and none of them became officers I couldn't get in due to my eyesight barely passed ASVAB the fact that they contacted me should tell you something bonuses are at an all-time high and asvab is not that hard.
Exactly. You cant risk your life to defend a country if the same country says your life has no value when you are back to civilian life.
 

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"I want to go die and you don't" isn't the flex you think it is.
 
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