Do you think the situation will get so bad that men will have to pay just to have a no-sex date?

[BillyPilgrim]

Yes, usually when she either starts it by introducing a sexual topic or if she leaves a door wide open...I always walk through it and then joke with her that she left the door wide open for that one and that I am always going to walk through it when she does that. Almost always get a positive response to that and most say they are happy I wasn't afraid to do so...

From my sense if you just allow those type of things to occur as a natural part of the conversation you'll do far better than trying to force that which feels weird.

Women want to have those type of convos but they want to have them with guys they don't get weird vibes from who also know how to do so in the proper way.

Yes, there is a right way and wrong way to do it. And from my convos it seems a lot of guys do it the wrong way.

I like to give them subtle nudges here and there. At the end of the day, we're all going to have our individual style.

 

[MatureDJ]

If I wanted to I could set up a date with a new woman every day this week using dating apps and actually meet them(my flake rate is almost non existent). It's not that hard.

Dating apps are like shooting fish in a barrel

How tall are you?

 

[MatureDJ]

Examples of sexual innuendos you've used in past conversations with women would be helpful also. It would prevent the type of reply that one poster said something along the lines of: "Gynecologist.. He has the best job in the world". He thought he was sexualizing a conversation...It's not so people can use it as a step by step script. It's like trying to explain to someone how to dance, vs. having them watch two people dance....

I have a friend that is a gynecologist (he's Nordic looking and has an Asian wife ); he said that maybe 1 out of 500 of his patients are decently attractive.

 

[MatureDJ]

Did a little digging around, and found this subreddit:

Reddit - Dive into anything

www.reddit.com

Wow, no wonder there are no chicks around to traditionally date.

 

[SW15]

His born in 1978, most of his competitors are married. His also had time to build up capital.

So what? A lot of women born between 1978-1985 are married or in LTRs at this point. That would offset the fact that his male competitors are often married.

It's an entirely different game for him especially when you consider the fact that women almost never date men younger then them.

Again, so what? Not a lot of men want to date a woman who is older than they are, even by 1-2 years. Part of the privilege about getting older as a man is having a wider selection of younger women as options. Men start to receive that privilege in the 2nd half of their 20s. Why bother to date someone a few days older - 2 years older when you can date younger?

Reddit - Dive into anything

www.reddit.com

Wow, no wonder there are no chicks around to traditionally date.

There are plenty of women to traditionally date. Sugar babies are a smaller % of the overall market of women.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

How tall are you?

5'8".

Sorry, can't use the excuse I've got height going for me either.