Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Do you think the rise of young men as brothel customers is due to hypergamy?

MatureDJ

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I was reading this, and it got me interested:

https://www.nytimes.com/2012/04/07/...pain-for-sex-with-trafficked-prostitutes.html

La Jonquera used to be a quiet border town where truckers rested and the French came looking for a deal on hand-painted pottery and leather goods. But these days, prostitution is big business here, as it is elsewhere in Spain, where it is essentially legal.

In the past, most customers were middle-aged men. But the boom here, experts say, is powered in large part by the desires of young men — many of them traveling in packs for the weekend — taking advantage of Europe’s cheap and nearly seamless travel.

“The young used to go to discos,” said Francina Vila i Valls, Barcelona’s councilor for women and civil rights. “But now they go to brothels. It’s just another form of entertainment to them.”
my opinion: Young men used to go to discos because they used to have a decent shot at getting a woman, either as a 1NS or a girlfriend. Since women are hypergamous these days, they don't have a decent shot anymore, so they have decided to spend their time on the "sure thing".
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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zekko

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my opinion: Young men used to go to discos because they used to have a decent shot at getting a woman, either as a 1NS or a girlfriend. Since women are hypergamous these days, they don't have a decent shot anymore, so they have decided to spend their time on the "sure thing".
Keeping in mind that I know nothing about Spain:
Women have always been hypergamous though. So if men suddenly are not getting a shot, there must be something else at play that is causing it.
Like the death of marriage and the birth of the hookup culture, or like Raiders says, online dating.
 

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Young men have been visiting brothels since time immemorial...

No big mystery why...
 
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