You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
That's all true, but also the baby boomers have been in political power for awhile now, and they grew up in an era where marijuana was very prevalent. It seems nonsense to them when people try to demonize it. I never could understand how alcohol was legal if marijuana wasn't, when alcohol is about 100x more dangerous.I think it's because of tax purposes, but a docile population with short attention spans is a nice side-effect for those in power.
Good points.That's all true, but also the baby boomers have been in political power for awhile now, and they grew up in an era where marijuana was very prevalent. It seems nonsense to them when people try to demonize it. I never could understand how alcohol was legal if marijuana wasn't, when alcohol is about 100x more dangerous.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
I think one of the reasons could be that alcohol can be carefully titrated in consumption - e.g., if you have a bottle of beer, you'll get 12 oz of 5.2% (or whatever) ethanol, whereas how in world do you know how much dronabinol you've consumed by smoking a joint? OK, maybe muchables could have a certain dose.Marijuana is great. Why can you work a 10 hour day and come home to a few beers, but I can’t come home and smoke half a joint?
Makes sense. Get the money from taxing the weed, and more money by making arrests because the weed is more out in the open.Most people don't know that after Colorado legalized, weed arrests actually skyrocketed in that state.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
I would accept a further tax to get them marijuana for free if that would help them to relax and not being a pain in the ass once they pass their mid 30s.I dont think it is for the sake of incels, in fact women are the highest demographic that are increasingly going after smoking , drinking and weed.