Do you think the epidemic in peacetime "friendly fire" incidents is caused by soldiers' wives hypergamously dumping them?

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I was reading this, and it got me interested:

A Year of Heartbreak and Bloodshed at Fort Hood (Published 2020)

More Fort Hood soldiers have died in homicides than in battle since 2016, and officials and family members are struggling to understand why.

www.nytimes.com

my opinion: Although soldiers are de facto brave Alphas, their strict hierarchical regimen really Beta-tizes them - necessarily to the Commander, of course - but these men also carry that attitude over to their home life, where the "Commander" at home bosses them around almost as much as the guys with the stripes, bars, oak leaves & stars - thereby leaving that "Commander" not being as interested in them when they were dating a military man. And this, along with long deployments and moves (i.e., where the wife might stay back a while, etc.), gives these "Commanders" the ability to hypergamously upgrade without hindrance - and having the full weight of the thoroughly gynocentric military Office of Family (or whatever it's called) to tell the soldier to "man up" at home.