"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Do you think the dire overpopulation of males in China & India will lead to a war there?
- Thread starter MatureDJ
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
My friend, I could easily envision you in a past life as a Norse raider wielding the dane axe and plundering Scotland and Ireland..... or better yet, as a Norse chieftain wielding the legendary +VLFBERH+T sword (pronounced "Ooofff bert")......I've just learned I have another famous Viking ancestor, Rollo of Normandy, and a Frank that was the most alpha man of the Middle Ages, Charlemagne, and his grandfather Charles Martel who had the nickname "The Hammer". Mathematicians have deduced that just about every white person from Western Europe is a descendant of Charlemagne, LOL; it looks like he had about 20 kids that have been identified, with who knows how many are unidentified.
