"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Do you think The Bachelorette has problems getting good men because being bad boy is so attractive?

MatureDJ

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I was reading this, and it got men interested:

http://www.vulture.com/2018/06/the-bachelorette-season-14-casting-problems.html

my opinion: Women find men that have the "bad boy" vibe as more attractive than a decent human, so of course, their personality winnowing process ends up with more bad boys then a random sampling of the male population would submit. Is it surprising that a show that feeds into female hypergamy ends up getting the type of men that female hypergamy left to its own devices would come up with? :rolleyes:
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I was reading this, and it got men interested:

http://www.vulture.com/2018/06/the-bachelorette-season-14-casting-problems.html

my opinion: Women find men that have the "bad boy" vibe as more attractive than a decent human, so of course, their personality winnowing process ends up with more bad boys then a random sampling of the male population would submit. Is it surprising that a show that feeds into female hypergamy ends up getting the type of men that female hypergamy left to its own devices would come up with? :rolleyes:
So they cuck the man who's help them and give puzzy to the man who wouldn't help if his life depended upon it . This is how they wanted it.
 
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