"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Do you think The Bachelorette has problems getting good men because being bad boy is so attractive?

MatureDJ

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I was reading this, and it got men interested:

http://www.vulture.com/2018/06/the-bachelorette-season-14-casting-problems.html

my opinion: Women find men that have the "bad boy" vibe as more attractive than a decent human, so of course, their personality winnowing process ends up with more bad boys then a random sampling of the male population would submit. Is it surprising that a show that feeds into female hypergamy ends up getting the type of men that female hypergamy left to its own devices would come up with? :rolleyes:
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I was reading this, and it got men interested:

http://www.vulture.com/2018/06/the-bachelorette-season-14-casting-problems.html

my opinion: Women find men that have the "bad boy" vibe as more attractive than a decent human, so of course, their personality winnowing process ends up with more bad boys then a random sampling of the male population would submit. Is it surprising that a show that feeds into female hypergamy ends up getting the type of men that female hypergamy left to its own devices would come up with? :rolleyes:
So they cuck the man who's help them and give puzzy to the man who wouldn't help if his life depended upon it . This is how they wanted it.
 
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