"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Do you think that women that get knocked up get a quick attitude adjustment so as to catch a "nice guy"?

MatureDJ

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I was watching this video, and it got me interested:


What I mean here is a woman that gets knocked up by man #1 (i.e., The Alpha), and then realizes that she has to get a step-daddy for the kid, so she rids herself of her snooty pre-pregnancy attitude & stuckupness so as to catch a nice guy man #2 (i.e., The Beta) and treat him like no other woman of her Sexual Market Value (i.e., pre-baby-bump) level had ever treated him, making him think that having the combination of good attitude & attractiveness is worth the stepdaddy hassle.

I can attest to the fact that at a younger and less hardened age, during some extended dry spells, I did begin to consider single mommies on a "case by case" basis (of course, after the initial date, I always got that queasy feeling in my gut that I couldn't possibly go through with this, although had one of the gals treated me just right, I might have stuck it out a while longer :rolleyes:). It really is the existential dilemma of any bachelor not getting enough action.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Thanks no, nothing against the kid who is probably the real victim but Im not gonna be the guy who takes left overs just cause its at a discount prize for the first few months only to spend twice the prize necessary when it was new.
 

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Wanting you to play stepdad is just wrong, unless you're willing to and have enough money (no man in his 20s wants to, though)
 
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