"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Do you think that the women in charity organizations will force them to turn away non-Chad men from volunteering because they don't want them macking?

MatureDJ

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I was viewing this video from True Forced Loneliness legend "Roller" Steve Hoca, and it got me interested:


All the macking advice I have read mentioned that volunteering for charities is a great way to build a social network. However, it seems quite plausible that enough non-Chads have been doing this that the women there are getting tired of the unattractive, "creepy" men hitting on them.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I was viewing this video from True Forced Loneliness legend "Roller" Steve Hoca, and it got me interested:


All the macking advice I have read mentioned that volunteering for charities is a great way to build a social network. However, it seems quite plausible that enough non-Chads have been doing this that the women there are getting tired of the unattractive, "creepy" men hitting on them.
No. They like non Chad's to kiss their azzes. So they do like the attention.
 
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