"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Do you think that "The Pink Stuff" going viral will make more women interested in homemaking?
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
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MatureDJ
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Actually, I first learned of this from Yahoo Finance. I am ALWAYS checking stocks whether I have a position in them or am thinking about it in the future.
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I InfoMog you.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
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Now I see why Yahoo always posts random unrelated content with their actual content.
FlexpertHamilton
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They went from being a search engine to being a retarded clickbait news feed
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I think Yahoo has succeeded in becoming a "front page" of the internet. Whenever I see an article that is behind a paywall, I search for that article & "Yahoo" to get a Yahoo article about the story. (I have a few other techniques to get around paywalls.
) And like I had said, Yahoo Finance has replaced the Money/Business section of the local newspaper, and with live pricing of securities."She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
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(2 days a week, I photograph used auto parts for online sales, at a breakers yard)
I use a version of this paste called 'Elbow Grease', which is basically the same stuff, but is a yellow/mustard colour.
It's fantastic at getting oil and grease off my hands and gear.
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