“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Do you think that Spring Break is dead because the frustrated chumps that thought they had a chance at poon have all realized that it's OVER for them?

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What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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This is more of a sign of an economy in recession than anything. I think your assessments about changes in the mating environment are also a contributing factor.
 

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Florida has been cracking down on spring breakers since I was in college. I remember the panhandle was aggressive towards spring breakers back in 2013.
 

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Nah, this is a side-effect of Bela Lugosi being dead
 

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Imagine believing that partying, which is essentially what Spring Break is--died. No, people just get tired of doing the same **** and typical **** like going to Florida-- but it still happens.

With young people, the partying never stops. It's literally every weekend for alot of college kids + 2 times during the week.

I dont even understand how you connect frustrated chumps with young college kids who are getting laid more than ever before- and no it's not just OLD... Kids are going outside and having fun-- THe internet--is not a good perspective on reality.. It's a skewed perspective and one thing I learned about OP is he seems to just love viewing reality throguh the lens of online videos or articles.

Perfect example of people who need to GET OFF THE INTERNET!
 

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Perfect example of people who need to GET OFF THE INTERNET!
OP is also roughly 60 years old.

I dont even understand how you connect frustrated chumps with young college kids who are getting laid more than ever before
Sexlessness rates among 18-24 year olds have been increasing in recent years.

Many 18-24 year olds are frustrated chumps. That's an easy connection to make.
 

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OP is also roughly 60 years old.



Sexlessness rates among 18-24 year olds have been increasing in recent years.

Many 18-24 year olds are frustrated chumps. That's an easy connection to make.
It's hard for me to really buy that/believe that statistic since I've had a different experience being around that age group.. but of course, my experience isn't the ultimate. It's just odd though because casual sex is now more accepted than ever before. We're more sexified than ever before, etc.- we're using more drugs than ever before, etc. I think its a complete fallacy to believe that people are having LESS sex especially at an age which is the core age of people having sex.

I think people need to rely less on statistics and actually go ask young people whats going on. I've had the benefit of having younger friends through industry/work/other connections.. and I don't see kids stopping or slowing down. ofc,i haven't lived long enough to see what it was like in the 60s and 70s.. But those times were also heavily influenced by like a reinassance period of change in perspectives and arts, and drugs introduced into college campuses, etc.
 
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OP is also roughly 60 years old.



Sexlessness rates among 18-24 year olds have been increasing in recent years.

Many 18-24 year olds are frustrated chumps. That's an easy connection to make.
''the rate of virginity among young adults in the U.S. and other Western countries has been increasing, particularly among males, a trend linked to factors like delayed marriage, the rise of online pornography, and increased technology use. While some sources suggest a greater number of virgins overall due to population growth, data from the National Survey of Family Growth (NSFG) between 2013-2015 and 2022-2023 indicates that measures of sexlessness have risen for both young men and women.

Evidence of Increased Virginity
  • Rising Sexlessness:
    A 2025 analysis of the NSFG data found a significant "skyrocketing" in sexlessness among young adults between 2013-2015 and 2022-2023.

  • Gen Z Trends:
    A 2022 survey by the Kinsey Institute showed one in four Gen Z adults had never experienced partnered sex.

  • Increased Male Virginity:
    The same analysis of the NSFG data showed the virginity rate for young adult males more than doubled during the same period.''
 

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Studies have shown that Gen Z consumes far less alcohol than Gen Y and definitely X. Plus, fewer Gen Z's are having sex according to more studies for many reasons. Throw in sky high prices on everything and a generation addicted to tech (phones, apps, PCs, videos games) and it's not hard to see why Spring Break may be dying off.
 

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I concede on my perspective based assumptions. The statistics should not be ignored. I think when you're in an abundant mindset, you kinda see more of what you relate to.. and gotta remind myself that isn't the general consensus.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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It's hard for me to really buy that/believe that statistic since I've had a different experience being around that age group.. but of course, my experience isn't the ultimate. It's just odd though because casual sex is now more accepted than ever before. We're more sexified than ever before, etc.- we're using more drugs than ever before, etc. I think its a complete fallacy to believe that people are having LESS sex especially at an age which is the core age of people having sex.

I think people need to rely less on statistics and actually go ask young people whats going on. I've had the benefit of having younger friends through industry/work/other connections.. and I don't see kids stopping or slowing down. ofc,i haven't lived long enough to see what it was like in the 60s and 70s.. But those times were also heavily influenced by like a reinassance period of change in perspectives and arts, and drugs introduced into college campuses, etc.
we can get the idea that all are doing the same things. many silo still exist. one can hang out with a group or type and see them all places. the rest of the people are invisible.
 

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''the rate of virginity among young adults in the U.S. and other Western countries has been increasing, particularly among males, a trend linked to factors like delayed marriage, the rise of online pornography, and increased technology use. While some sources suggest a greater number of virgins overall due to population growth, data from the National Survey of Family Growth (NSFG) between 2013-2015 and 2022-2023 indicates that measures of sexlessness have risen for both young men and women.

Evidence of Increased Virginity
  • Rising Sexlessness:
    A 2025 analysis of the NSFG data found a significant "skyrocketing" in sexlessness among young adults between 2013-2015 and 2022-2023.

  • Gen Z Trends:
    A 2022 survey by the Kinsey Institute showed one in four Gen Z adults had never experienced partnered sex.

  • Increased Male Virginity:
    The same analysis of the NSFG data showed the virginity rate for young adult males more than doubled during the same period.''
the 80/20 rules are becoming the 90/10 rules.
 
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