"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Do you think that if the USA had legal prostitution everywhere, DeShaun Watson would simply have been a happy John, and no one would be the wiser?

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I was reading this, and it got me interested:
my opinion: Like a lot of young men, Watson is a very horny man - but unlike most every other horny man, he is very wealthy, and so he figured that he could satisfy his urges by EscortMaxxing. However, unlike just about anywhere else in the world, he lives in a femynist/Puritanical society, and thus can't simply order in for personal services - and somehow got imbued with the idea that all massage parlors that have rub & tug service, and thought that his aggressive sexual moves were part of JohnMaxxing. And it wasn't until these masseuses found out that he was a wealthy professional athlete that he started getting lawsuits, and started realizing that he was not supposed to do that. In any case, if he were living somewhere where there was a brothel in the area (e.g., like in Vegas, where the brothels are within an hour's drive of The Strip), he would have just whipped out his credit card and have at it. In a place like Germany, e.g., he could have availed himself at the sauna brothels, etc.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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