Do you think that having a girlfriend increase interest from other girls?

[Who Dares Win]

Do you think that having a girlfriend make you more attractive to other girls or the tought of you cheating on her may repulse them?

At first I tought that having a gf is great in terms of preselection and competition instinct among women but recently I noticed some kind of "sisterhood feeling" where women feel not only repulsed but even vengeful toward guys which harm other women and they make a point to themselves and other women to pay him back.

It seems like women are becoming more like men even in contempt against certain behaviours.

 

[skinnyguy]

Having a girlfriend is an aphrodisiac to women because:

1. It shows you can attract other women
2. It shows you are loyal
3. It shows that you have a life and aren't beta.

Many women seem to only go for guys with girlfriends. Usually, at least where I live, if you're single it's a huge turnoff.

 

[nismo-4]

It takes money to make money. The rich get richer. It's easier to get a job when you already have one. Women ain't no damn different. If you walk around single, it's that much tougher to attract women. If you have a girlfriend on your arm, it shows you're preselected and have something of value.

Women love value. And they talk.

Case closed.

 

[Maximus Rex]

Not having a "girlfriend," per se but having women around you (especially hot and attractive ones,) makes you more attractive to the next chick for feasons that have already been stated.

 

[corrector]

I think having a girlfriend is overrated and you don't get any extra points with her friends in a social circle if the relationship doesn't work out and there is a break-up.

In my experience of having a gf last year, or girl(s) interested in me (i.e. but I'm not pursuing them because they are too old or have a bf), has no influence at all in attracting any other women at all into my life. The best impact it did have was I may have connected on a social level with her friends. But after the break-up (which I initiated), everything was wiped out and to this day there is nothing good to show for that relationship.

Even so, if you had a gf, it doesn't mean, all of a sudden you are a celebrity and women are going to open up to you everywhere you go. It's the other way around, isn't it? If lots of women likes you then chances are you'll have a gf unless you are just playing the field. It just boils down to looks and what you have to offer out there.

Most of the times in relationship, I felt only my gf loved me and I didn't really connect with anyone else besides her. All I felt like was a loner in a relationship with her friends tolerating me because of her, but not liking me for me, like she did. In terms of connecting with women in general (ie. outside her social circle), I didn't see any appreciable difference being with her last year verses being single now, or before I met her. Believe me, if I noticed something, I'd remember it because I've been single most of my life. I didn't hug any of her friends, or even hug any other woman for that year.

 

[skinnyguy]

I lie about having a gf to my female coworkers and now all of a sudden they are treating me differently.

 

[Mike32ct]

I lie about having a gf to my female coworkers and now all of a sudden they are treating me differently.

I don't doubt it. At a MINIMUM, women will respect you more when they think you have a gf.

 

[adam225]

I lie about having a gf to my female coworkers and now all of a sudden they are treating me differently.

Come on man, that's just pathetic.

 

[JaegerPilot217]

Do you think that having a girlfriend make you more attractive to other girls or the tought of you cheating on her may repulse them?

At first I tought that having a gf is great in terms of preselection and competition instinct among women but recently I noticed some kind of "sisterhood feeling" where women feel not only repulsed but even vengeful toward guys which harm other women and they make a point to themselves and other women to pay him back.

It seems like women are becoming more like men even in contempt against certain behaviours.

Yes because women for the most part have a pre-selection mentality, they want what other women want way more than we men want what other men want

 

[Mike32ct]

No doubt that, all else being equal, the guy with a gf is more attractive than a single guy.

But what I think the OP is getting at is... "Is it easier for a guy with a gf to hook up with other girls, or are women so against cheating that having a gf makes it more difficult to hook up?"

I'm not sure of this one.

 

[Who Dares Win]

No doubt that, all else being equal, the guy with a gf is more attractive than a single guy.

But what I think the OP is getting at is... "Is it easier for a guy with a gf to hook up with other girls, or are women so against cheating that having a gf makes it more difficult to hook up?"

I'm not sure of this one.

Yeah something like that Mike