“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Do you think that fat chicks donning "pin-up" attire & makeup actually makes them more desirable?

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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There was a question on Quora asking whether or not men find fat women attractive. I replied the more fat, the less attractive. Needless to say I got banned.
LOL, I'm on my 3rd username there.
 

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Yes, SI has become ridiculous.
Unfortunately it is a lot easier for females to boycott something and stand in unity than males due to their thirst, beta behaviours, white knighting, desperation, etc.

Think of how powerful it would be if males could be united like females can. SI would definitely be in the dumps by now along with MANY other things.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Some fat feminist moderator didn't like being told that she's not attractive.
Yet if that same fat feminist moderator was face to face being asked out by a guy who was 5'6 she would tell him she didn't like short men
 

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IMO, THIS IS ABOUT AS BIG A WOMAN CAN BE AND STILL BE SEXY.
very rarely have i seen a woman as BIG in the article you posted that i actually found sexually attractive
 

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IMO, THIS IS ABOUT AS BIG A WOMAN CAN BE AND STILL BE SEXY.
very rarely have i seen a woman as BIG in the article you posted that i actually found sexually attractive
This is not fat.. This morbidly obese. Dudes settle for average, chubby or fat chicks because either a, they are tired of playing games with the attractive or above-average looking females. Or two, they want to settle and have a family with someone they feel will be loyal and stick around. However, I will say, Ho's ain't loyal.

 

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Chubby can be well dressed and have lots of makeup but it doesn't really dramatically make them look more attractive. Fat however cannot be even moderately improved with style or make up. It looks like a deformation of style.
 

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This is not fat.. This morbidly obese. Dudes settle for average, chubby or fat chicks because either a, they are tired of playing games with the attractive or above-average looking females. Or two, they want to settle and have a family with someone they feel will be loyal and stick around. However, I will say, Ho's ain't loyal.

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so sad
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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IMO, THIS IS ABOUT AS BIG A WOMAN CAN BE AND STILL BE SEXY.
very rarely have i seen a woman as BIG in the article you posted that i actually found sexually attractive
Ergo, you must be a chubby chaser, because these gals are disgusting.

EDIT: OK, I could see the middle gal has a pretty enough face that if she went on a major diet, she might be decent for spooning - I am sure that the stretch marks for a gal like that that had thinned would be disgusting - with being able to tolerate looking at her from the front just so long as she were clothed.
 
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I've often wondered if I could use game to catapult myself from the guy at 6 (or an otherwise 8, except short :mad:) into a Stacy-10 gal who is right at the point where she's getting tired of Chads blowing her off (i.e., since the Beckys make it so easy for them).
game is after you get the foot in the door you need that regardless , looksmaxxing and heightmaxxing is the only way to go up notches , also hygiene and cologne and dresssing welll take you up atleast a point

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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Ergo, you must be a chubby chaser, because these gals are disgusting.

EDIT: OK, I could see the middle gal has a pretty enough face that if she went on a major diet, she might be decent for spooning - I am sure that the stretch marks for a gal like that that had thinned would be disgusting - with being able to tolerate looking at her from the front just so long as she were clothed.
so you're tellin me you wouldn't hit it from the back or accept a bj from the middle one?spooning only?
stretch marks turn me off except on certain woman and depending how bad they are , they can be a major turn off
 

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so you're tellin me you wouldn't hit it from the back or accept a bj from the middle one?spooning only?
stretch marks turn me off except on certain woman and depending how bad they are , they can be a major turn off
Not women that are this big. The good thing about spooning is that a gal can have a bit of a tummy flab but if her a33 is without cellulite, and the waist-to-hips ratio is good, it works. Of course, I prefer spooning for the same reason as I use the sidestroke when doing long swims - to conserve energy.
 
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