"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Do you think student-debt-laden coeds will try to garner beta husbands to help pay off debt?

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I was reading this, and one line in particular got me interested:

http://www.businessinsider.com/why-you-shouldnt-default-on-your-loans-2015-6
A default will make it nearly impossible to buy a new home, rent an apartment, and even do the seemingly mundane task of getting a cellphone contract.

To combat those difficulties, Siegel wrote ... "Live with or marry someone with good credit."
This seems to me to be advice to such a coed to marry some beta provider with "good credit".

My opinion: :down:
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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