"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Do you think student-debt-laden coeds will try to garner beta husbands to help pay off debt?

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I was reading this, and one line in particular got me interested:

http://www.businessinsider.com/why-you-shouldnt-default-on-your-loans-2015-6
A default will make it nearly impossible to buy a new home, rent an apartment, and even do the seemingly mundane task of getting a cellphone contract.

To combat those difficulties, Siegel wrote ... "Live with or marry someone with good credit."
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This seems to me to be advice to such a coed to marry some beta provider with "good credit".

My opinion: :down:
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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