"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Do you think some OLD coeds are just looking for a free meal?

MatureDJ

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I was reading this, and it got me thinking:
One student Jack interviewed described how she increased her online-dating activity to secure meals on first dates where she expected the men to pay. “She was treating Tinder as if it were OpenTable,” Jack writes.
my opinion: :down:
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Lookatu

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There's a lot of women wanting "foodie calls" these days. There's a lot of articles on it, especially in the last two years.

Embarrassingly when I started to date again, I was the victim of this a few times.
 

SW15

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This isn't new. Before the current generation of apps (Tinder, Bumble, Hinge), women on the websites like Match.com, PlentyofFish, and OkCupid were doing the same thing.

I have one female friend who lives in a different city than I do and I'm not physically attracted to her. She tells me she gets tons of dinner date offers from apps. I am astounded that still happens since I learned not to do dinner first dates nearly a decade ago.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Who Dares Win

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Its really unbelievable how dumb the average guy can be sometimes.

Even if you inform him about it, he is still falling for this scam.
 
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