"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Do you think some OLD coeds are just looking for a free meal?

MatureDJ

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I was reading this, and it got me thinking:
One student Jack interviewed described how she increased her online-dating activity to secure meals on first dates where she expected the men to pay. “She was treating Tinder as if it were OpenTable,” Jack writes.
my opinion: :down:
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Lookatu

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There's a lot of women wanting "foodie calls" these days. There's a lot of articles on it, especially in the last two years.

Embarrassingly when I started to date again, I was the victim of this a few times.
 

SW15

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This isn't new. Before the current generation of apps (Tinder, Bumble, Hinge), women on the websites like Match.com, PlentyofFish, and OkCupid were doing the same thing.

I have one female friend who lives in a different city than I do and I'm not physically attracted to her. She tells me she gets tons of dinner date offers from apps. I am astounded that still happens since I learned not to do dinner first dates nearly a decade ago.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Who Dares Win

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Its really unbelievable how dumb the average guy can be sometimes.

Even if you inform him about it, he is still falling for this scam.
 
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