MatureDJ
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"Blank Mind on Dates? She's Dropping Hints You Keep Missing"
The plates get cleared and the silence lands like a brick. You can feel her waiting. Your brain offers up your commute, your job, the weather — topics that have ended more second dates than bad breath.
Here's what most guys never learn: women hand out free conversational material all night long. Tiny clues about what they actually want to discuss. Catch them and you never run out of things to say — because she's telling you what to say next.
Rule 4 of the "22 Rules" trains your ear to catch every single one.
Do you think single mommies saying that men are "scared" of them are just trying to shame them into becoming after-the-fact cuckolds?
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
First off who gives a damn what single mommies think. Second don't commit to one and please, in begging you, DO NOT Cohabitate with her. They're insane and if they have a son he will get jealous of your relationship with his mother. I now understand where the term "mother fvcker" came from. Kids don't like you fvcking their mother at all.
If you're like me you'll never really like their kid(s) anyways. Their kid(s) will become basically a burden. It's absolutely miserable and makes you feel like the entire relationship is tainted because of the oppressive existence of her spawn. And when her trash tier job if mothering and disciplining her child in a constructive and healthy manner (or lack thereof) fails and she's mad at the kid(s) and then she starts complaining to you, you're now dealing with her sh1tty attitude because of the behavior her mongrel son that she fostered and in enabled and now you have to talk to the damn kid because his moms so p1ssed and doesn't want to put out. I just told the kid "look dude I am not your dad and I'm not trying to be, but you have it easy, just don't eat in your room, get good grades, clean up after yourself and I'll make sure you have no bed time and will make sure your mom leaves you alone, it's very easy, I'll make it so you can do whatever you want as long as you can stop p1ssing her off because now it's almost like she's getting mad at ME because you won't listen. You're sh1t is affecting my life and my peace of mind. If you don't comply I will encourage your mother to take away your priveleges and leave you to her mercy ". Granted I was kind of understanding because she was extremely inconsistent and way to emotional.
But it is not worth it. Single mothers are insane. Also even just fvcking single mothers, they'll try to lure you in and lock you down and manipulate you to game you into being that kids daddy.
If you're like me you'll never really like their kid(s) anyways. Their kid(s) will become basically a burden. It's absolutely miserable and makes you feel like the entire relationship is tainted because of the oppressive existence of her spawn. And when her trash tier job if mothering and disciplining her child in a constructive and healthy manner (or lack thereof) fails and she's mad at the kid(s) and then she starts complaining to you, you're now dealing with her sh1tty attitude because of the behavior her mongrel son that she fostered and in enabled and now you have to talk to the damn kid because his moms so p1ssed and doesn't want to put out. I just told the kid "look dude I am not your dad and I'm not trying to be, but you have it easy, just don't eat in your room, get good grades, clean up after yourself and I'll make sure you have no bed time and will make sure your mom leaves you alone, it's very easy, I'll make it so you can do whatever you want as long as you can stop p1ssing her off because now it's almost like she's getting mad at ME because you won't listen. You're sh1t is affecting my life and my peace of mind. If you don't comply I will encourage your mother to take away your priveleges and leave you to her mercy ". Granted I was kind of understanding because she was extremely inconsistent and way to emotional.
But it is not worth it. Single mothers are insane. Also even just fvcking single mothers, they'll try to lure you in and lock you down and manipulate you to game you into being that kids daddy.
taiyuu_otoko
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Everybody is awesome.
But nobody ever gets what they want.
Therefore, it's always somebody else's fault.
Kind of like this schools where every student is above average.
But nobody ever gets what they want.
Therefore, it's always somebody else's fault.
Kind of like this schools where every student is above average.
Well, since another one of my threads was closed (yet again) I'll just have to chime in here....
Single moms are the #1 demographic of women who say things like "man up, do so-and-so"
These women know that most guys have fragile egos and so they're running some Sun Tzu Art of War game and attacking the weakest spot in a man's psyche....
The goal of course is to manipulate men to "prove how manly they are" by doing whatever it is women want...
Only weak guys fall for this bullsh1t...
"Man up, marry a single mom!!!..."
Single moms are the #1 demographic of women who say things like "man up, do so-and-so"
These women know that most guys have fragile egos and so they're running some Sun Tzu Art of War game and attacking the weakest spot in a man's psyche....
The goal of course is to manipulate men to "prove how manly they are" by doing whatever it is women want...
Only weak guys fall for this bullsh1t...
"Man up, marry a single mom!!!..."
wifehunter
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I'm a BIG chicken!!!
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Mike32ct
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Short answer: yes
Long answer: yess
Long answer: yess
CAPSLOCK BANDIT
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The term Bastard is used in a similar way
wifehunter
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Who Dares Win
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Anytime someone answers to a social situation or a social facts with personal (ad hominem) attacks, you can be sure that person if full of sh1t and you're doing great by not complying.
Kinda like "you're against mass migrations cause you're not happy with yourself", got told that today in this same board.
In the case of single moms since they have NOTHING to promote themselves they have to attack men emotionally and then providing them a "solution".
Kinda like "you're against mass migrations cause you're not happy with yourself", got told that today in this same board.
In the case of single moms since they have NOTHING to promote themselves they have to attack men emotionally and then providing them a "solution".
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
DEEZEDBRAH
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Mitigation of cratered smv in piss poor attempt.