MatureDJ
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Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
Do you think single mommies saying that men are "scared" of them are just trying to shame them into becoming after-the-fact cuckolds?
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
First off who gives a damn what single mommies think. Second don't commit to one and please, in begging you, DO NOT Cohabitate with her. They're insane and if they have a son he will get jealous of your relationship with his mother. I now understand where the term "mother fvcker" came from. Kids don't like you fvcking their mother at all.
If you're like me you'll never really like their kid(s) anyways. Their kid(s) will become basically a burden. It's absolutely miserable and makes you feel like the entire relationship is tainted because of the oppressive existence of her spawn. And when her trash tier job if mothering and disciplining her child in a constructive and healthy manner (or lack thereof) fails and she's mad at the kid(s) and then she starts complaining to you, you're now dealing with her sh1tty attitude because of the behavior her mongrel son that she fostered and in enabled and now you have to talk to the damn kid because his moms so p1ssed and doesn't want to put out. I just told the kid "look dude I am not your dad and I'm not trying to be, but you have it easy, just don't eat in your room, get good grades, clean up after yourself and I'll make sure you have no bed time and will make sure your mom leaves you alone, it's very easy, I'll make it so you can do whatever you want as long as you can stop p1ssing her off because now it's almost like she's getting mad at ME because you won't listen. You're sh1t is affecting my life and my peace of mind. If you don't comply I will encourage your mother to take away your priveleges and leave you to her mercy ". Granted I was kind of understanding because she was extremely inconsistent and way to emotional.
But it is not worth it. Single mothers are insane. Also even just fvcking single mothers, they'll try to lure you in and lock you down and manipulate you to game you into being that kids daddy.
If you're like me you'll never really like their kid(s) anyways. Their kid(s) will become basically a burden. It's absolutely miserable and makes you feel like the entire relationship is tainted because of the oppressive existence of her spawn. And when her trash tier job if mothering and disciplining her child in a constructive and healthy manner (or lack thereof) fails and she's mad at the kid(s) and then she starts complaining to you, you're now dealing with her sh1tty attitude because of the behavior her mongrel son that she fostered and in enabled and now you have to talk to the damn kid because his moms so p1ssed and doesn't want to put out. I just told the kid "look dude I am not your dad and I'm not trying to be, but you have it easy, just don't eat in your room, get good grades, clean up after yourself and I'll make sure you have no bed time and will make sure your mom leaves you alone, it's very easy, I'll make it so you can do whatever you want as long as you can stop p1ssing her off because now it's almost like she's getting mad at ME because you won't listen. You're sh1t is affecting my life and my peace of mind. If you don't comply I will encourage your mother to take away your priveleges and leave you to her mercy ". Granted I was kind of understanding because she was extremely inconsistent and way to emotional.
But it is not worth it. Single mothers are insane. Also even just fvcking single mothers, they'll try to lure you in and lock you down and manipulate you to game you into being that kids daddy.
taiyuu_otoko
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Everybody is awesome.
But nobody ever gets what they want.
Therefore, it's always somebody else's fault.
Kind of like this schools where every student is above average.
But nobody ever gets what they want.
Therefore, it's always somebody else's fault.
Kind of like this schools where every student is above average.
Well, since another one of my threads was closed (yet again) I'll just have to chime in here....
Single moms are the #1 demographic of women who say things like "man up, do so-and-so"
These women know that most guys have fragile egos and so they're running some Sun Tzu Art of War game and attacking the weakest spot in a man's psyche....
The goal of course is to manipulate men to "prove how manly they are" by doing whatever it is women want...
Only weak guys fall for this bullsh1t...
"Man up, marry a single mom!!!..."
Single moms are the #1 demographic of women who say things like "man up, do so-and-so"
These women know that most guys have fragile egos and so they're running some Sun Tzu Art of War game and attacking the weakest spot in a man's psyche....
The goal of course is to manipulate men to "prove how manly they are" by doing whatever it is women want...
Only weak guys fall for this bullsh1t...
"Man up, marry a single mom!!!..."
wifehunter
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I'm a BIG chicken!!!
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Mike32ct
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Short answer: yes
Long answer: yess
Long answer: yess
CAPSLOCK BANDIT
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The term Bastard is used in a similar way
wifehunter
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Anytime someone answers to a social situation or a social facts with personal (ad hominem) attacks, you can be sure that person if full of sh1t and you're doing great by not complying.
Kinda like "you're against mass migrations cause you're not happy with yourself", got told that today in this same board.
In the case of single moms since they have NOTHING to promote themselves they have to attack men emotionally and then providing them a "solution".
Kinda like "you're against mass migrations cause you're not happy with yourself", got told that today in this same board.
In the case of single moms since they have NOTHING to promote themselves they have to attack men emotionally and then providing them a "solution".
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
DEEZEDBRAH
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Mitigation of cratered smv in piss poor attempt.