"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Do you think serial killers are all men that are frustrated at being locked out of the sexual system?

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I was reading about this serial killer who went after teenage gals, and it got me interested:
I think that the foundation of these men's evildoing is that they have been unsuccessful with women, and thus they have decided to extract their vengeance by killing the same type of young women that reject them.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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In essence you can develop “revenge” mentality with various kind of experience. In general you can develop “[insert any strong active emotion]” with various kind of experiences.
Yes it is very likely that getting rejected by girls early on can develop in you revenge mentality. It can grow stronger with multiple similar experience. It is upto you how you satisfy that hunger. Men who have no education or have lower IQ can directly become criminal of first degree and rape and kill in rampage. Most serial killers.

Men who are educated become owner of business and satisfy their hunger accordingly, by bringing hookers, using social engineer to lure women, use power to trade sex with other resources and service they can provide(Harvey Weinstein). Some like Leonardo Di Caprio isn’t driven by revenge but it is obvious he has some agenda dating young girls.
Kevin Spacey was abused by his Father when he was child and thus his frequent assault on men.

It is not a hard science. Simple psychology.

Rejection, Beating, Failures they make create unsatisfied emotional void in us. How we fill it depends on what way we feel is best. We don’t flag that way as immoral, dishonest, unethical, right, wrong, good or bad. Only you willpower and level of desire decide whether you will get your way out or not. So yeah go get lost, fail, get rejected, beaten.
 

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Maybe some, but not enough to broadly apply to serial killers. I'm sure there's serial killers who has seen plenty of pvssy (who are not among his victims). No matter the motivation it's fvcked up.
 

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id say yes also.
id say that most serial killer impulse to kill is sexually related.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Most serial killers are quite charismatic. They are naturally seductive and instill comfort in their victims.

So generally no.
Yep and not all of them are dumb as well, quite intelligent. Look at the btk killer dennis raider. He had a steady job and has kids as well and look at what he did. Depending on the type of killer I wonder if it's like a fetish some of them have and they get a thrill doing it.

Raider was married for years and had a family so I wouldn't consider him a loser.
 

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No. These guys had their dogs rape their victims too. They trained said dogs to penetrate them both vaginally and anally. Not even joking. Well, it was either these guys, or the Toy Box Serial Killers; inawlays mix them up. There are many other sadists out there who rape men. We just don’t hear about it. It doesn’t really happen in the US much aside from war prisoners. But this type of stuff is especially common in Eastern Europe and the Middle East. Quite sad unfortunately.
 

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Most serial killers are quite charismatic. They are naturally seductive and instill comfort in their victims.

So generally no.
Yes, they may be so but there may be an incident of abuse in their childhood. People don't just wake up one day out of the blue and happen to be that way.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Ted Bundy didn't have issues getting women.
That doesn't change the fact his motives are warped. If someone was paid $ 1 Million dollars cash to seduce or put on a one-time act then that person's motives would be warped too.

I think when you are true to yourself and your motives and wear your heart a bit on your sleeve that is usually a weaker type of frame of approach than having a strong agenda that's not related to the natural approach. If it's a validating-seeking approach where you want a breadcrumb phone number, that's usually a weaker overall frame because you need her approval for an ego-boost.
 

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Many of them have issues with their mothers that carry over to how they view all women.
 

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No, that's far too one-dimensional a view. A lot of serial killers are more or less driven over the cliff by having seriously damaged parents or a fvcked up upbringing. Each killer is different too, dahmer killed no women and women were throwing pvssy at him like there was no tomorrow.

Psychopaths get by in the world by manipulating people with their charm, they have no trouble getting pvssy, assuming they want any.

I actually have met a legit sociopath, the guy came across as cool when you first met him, but he turned out to fit the exact profile of the good looking guy who lives by predating on unsuspecting women and milking them dry of their money before moving to another victim and repeating it. He's dumb as a rock (IQ of 90) and extremely lazy, but he can still pull it off.
 

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No, that's far too one-dimensional a view. A lot of serial killers are more or less driven over the cliff by having seriously damaged parents or a fvcked up upbringing. Each killer is different too, dahmer killed no women and women were throwing pvssy at him like there was no tomorrow.

Psychopaths get by in the world by manipulating people with their charm, they have no trouble getting pvssy, assuming they want any.

I actually have met a legit sociopath, the guy came across as cool when you first met him, but he turned out to fit the exact profile of the good looking guy who lives by predating on unsuspecting women and milking them dry of their money before moving to another victim and repeating it. He's dumb as a rock (IQ of 90) and extremely lazy, but he can still pull it off.
Sounds reverse lol. Usually it's the woman milking the guy of his money aka beta buxxing.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I can answer this question. Serial killers are often times not sexually frustrated and locked out of the system. Bro. I murder bowls of cereal after a night of sex. Let me tell you.
 
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