"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Do you think older man have more geeky children because it takes a geeky man longer to get a woman?

MatureDJ

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I was reading this and it got me thinking:

https://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2017/06/170620114143.htm

Sons of older fathers are more intelligent, more focused on their interests and less concerned about fitting in, all characteristics typically seen in 'geeks,' suggests new British research.
I think that that this can be explained by the fact that geekiness - or at least the genetic dispositions that correlate to geekiness to some degree - is inherited, and that it takes geeky men longer to get a wife, and non-geeky men that get women easier simply have their children earlier in life and thus on't have them later in life. This is similar to my theory about why older fathers have a higher risk of having children with autism or Asperger's.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Who Dares Win

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Generally speaking older fathers have older friends who happen to have older sons, it means the son of the older father doesnt have a group of same age peers while their parents meet...here comes getting used of being alone instead of being concerned about fitting it.

Plus older fathers are less likely to have energy to involve their sons in sports or physical activities or any activity to begin with, the son is alone at home and has no other option than sitting in front of a screen or building things.

The same "geeky" kid would be a different kid if allowed to play with kids his age or being involved in sports from his father.
 

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sure if enviroment was the only determinating factor to a person personality
 

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As the geeky son of parents who had me in their late 30s I wholeheartedly concur.
 

glass half full

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Geeky kids are tied down by stricter parents. Can be a bad deal, I know from experience.
My dad is so submissive, and mom is the most controlling woman I've ever known. And perfect, never done/does anything wrong.
Sigh.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Also, smarter men won't just bust their nuts unprotected, and smarter women won't **** any men. So they are less likely to carry pregnancy.
 
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