"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Do you think older man have more geeky children because it takes a geeky man longer to get a woman?

MatureDJ

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I was reading this and it got me thinking:

https://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2017/06/170620114143.htm

Sons of older fathers are more intelligent, more focused on their interests and less concerned about fitting in, all characteristics typically seen in 'geeks,' suggests new British research.
I think that that this can be explained by the fact that geekiness - or at least the genetic dispositions that correlate to geekiness to some degree - is inherited, and that it takes geeky men longer to get a wife, and non-geeky men that get women easier simply have their children earlier in life and thus on't have them later in life. This is similar to my theory about why older fathers have a higher risk of having children with autism or Asperger's.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Who Dares Win

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Generally speaking older fathers have older friends who happen to have older sons, it means the son of the older father doesnt have a group of same age peers while their parents meet...here comes getting used of being alone instead of being concerned about fitting it.

Plus older fathers are less likely to have energy to involve their sons in sports or physical activities or any activity to begin with, the son is alone at home and has no other option than sitting in front of a screen or building things.

The same "geeky" kid would be a different kid if allowed to play with kids his age or being involved in sports from his father.
 

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sure if enviroment was the only determinating factor to a person personality
 

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As the geeky son of parents who had me in their late 30s I wholeheartedly concur.
 

glass half full

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Geeky kids are tied down by stricter parents. Can be a bad deal, I know from experience.
My dad is so submissive, and mom is the most controlling woman I've ever known. And perfect, never done/does anything wrong.
Sigh.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Also, smarter men won't just bust their nuts unprotected, and smarter women won't **** any men. So they are less likely to carry pregnancy.
 
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