"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Do you think men visit strip joints to have physical access to women that they normally can't get?

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I was looking at this, and it got me interested:

https://www.rawstory.com/2018/07/watch-georgia-waitress-bodyslams-man-grabbing

my opinion: I think that men who are sexually frustrated because they can't get a woman visit strip joints so that they can touch women, who they presume (obviously wrongly in this man's case) are open to sexual touching. I mean, this guy got arrested. Had he been able to get women, he might not have felt the need to feel up this woman.

EDIT: OK, it appears that this guy has a gal and a pair of twin infants. Perhaps he feels sexually frustrated because he doesn't have a harem?
 
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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I was looking at this, and it got me interested:

https://www.rawstory.com/2018/07/watch-georgia-waitress-bodyslams-man-grabbing

my opinion: I think that men who are sexually frustrated because they can't get a woman visit strip joints so that they can touch women, who they presume (obviously wrongly in this man's case) are open to sexual touching. I mean, this guy got arrested. Had he been able to get women, he might not have felt the need to feel up this woman.

EDIT: OK, it appears that this guy has a gal and a pair of twin infants. Perhaps he feels sexually frustrated because he doesn't have a harem?
Just no!

Strippers aren't nothing to aspire to. Many are real ****ty human beings they are the female equivalent of a male scammer or con artist.

Also over half the guys have a GF or wife .

It's just something to do for men and aspires to the harem fantasy.
 

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I do suspect there is truth to that, yes. Even though they are *****s, some of them look very nice and most guys love contact with the nice looking ones. I'm personally not a big fan of giving money to chicks who pretend to "give a ****" about me but to each their own.
 

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Customer #1: comes to our strip club, pays 30$ a song in lapdance just to be hugged.

Customer #2: comes to our strip club and pays 30$ a song just to talk with the dancers.

A lot of guys are just lonely.
 

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Customer #1: comes to our strip club, pays 30$ a song in lapdance just to be hugged.

Customer #2: comes to our strip club and pays 30$ a song just to talk with the dancers.

A lot of guys are just lonely.
There's alot more than guys #1 and #2. It's alot of us in there who are fvcking, sometimes even strippers or waitresses and we just do it to hang with out guys . No deficiency at all except the dog mindset.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I was looking at this, and it got me interested:

https://www.rawstory.com/2018/07/watch-georgia-waitress-bodyslams-man-grabbing

my opinion: I think that men who are sexually frustrated because they can't get a woman visit strip joints so that they can touch women, who they presume (obviously wrongly in this man's case) are open to sexual touching. I mean, this guy got arrested. Had he been able to get women, he might not have felt the need to feel up this woman.

EDIT: OK, it appears that this guy has a gal and a pair of twin infants. Perhaps he feels sexually frustrated because he doesn't have a harem?
First off, this bro was wrong. Second, that woman looks like she can fuvk that little wimp up in no time. If I was a woman and that happened to me, I'd knock that little b!tch out. No one, man or woman, as a right to invade another persons space or grope them. Well, unless it's invited and accepted during sex or the preemptive anticipation of sex with both agreed parties. As always, one should have a VAR on them; just in case. Hey, what can I say. I continuously draw back to my days learning law in college.
 

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First off, this bro was wrong. Second, that woman looks like she can fuvk that little wimp up in no time. If I was a woman and that happened to me, I'd knock that little b!tch out. No one, man or woman, as a right to invade another persons space or grope them. Well, unless it's invited and accepted during sex or the preemptive anticipation of sex with both agreed parties. As always, one should have a VAR on them; just in case. Hey, what can I say. I continuously draw back to my days learning law in college.
So if you have a woman you can't reach over for a hug or a kiss? You should announce your intentions?
 
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