"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Do you think men that had fat mothers have been conditioned to accept fat women as romantic partners?

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I was looking at recent thread in which the poster discussed how he had fat-shamed his mother, and it got me thinking.

Anecdotally, at least with men I know, there does seem to be this correlation.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Who Dares Win

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I fat shame my mom anytime I see her eating junk food to the point she hides her candy bars when she knows I'll visit her.

I cant really tell about your question, in my case definitely not but it may be the case for those guys stuck who never had a chance to develop their own adult personality while young.
 

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not in my case.
i dont like fat girls cause my D dont go hard and because i feel weird showing public with such people, no idea why but i have no control over this

also
depends on their friends and families

fat friends? fat acceptance

fat family? fat acceptance

friends saying every girl under 7/10 (big dave?) is ugly ? fat shaming

I fat shame my mom anytime I see her eating junk food to the point
lets make fat-mom-shaming club

to the point she hides her candy bars when she knows I'll visit her.
LMAO



one more aspect, why would fat girl be worth of boyfriend with greek god body?
 

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I was looking at recent thread in which the poster discussed how he had fat-shamed his mother, and it got me thinking.

Anecdotally, at least with men I know, there does seem to be this correlation.
depends, do he want to bang his mom? that normally would mean a guy with that certain complex, and then want to get someone who could fit the bill who looks like his mom

What's with all these 'afraid of obesity' threads.

Fat guys should be with fat girls.
Average sized guys should be with average size women.
Fit guys with fit women.

That's all.

It makes me laugh when a plump dude drools over the HB7/10 and more. Look at the mirror dude. This or get $$$.
you know very well its not how it work or goes, you pull what you can, no way i'm the small kind of guy, i'm hard to be fit but i'm not weak, so following what you say would mean I would never pull slim girls, with I do most, every once in a blue moon I could pull a more bigger breasted and big ass girl, but its more for she still had a cute face
 

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What's with all these 'afraid of obesity' threads.

Fat guys should be with fat girls.
Average sized guys should be with average size women.
Fit guys with fit women.

That's all.

It makes me laugh when a plump dude drools over the HB7/10 and more. Look at the mirror dude. This or get $$$.
Sometimes they want a fat guy. He makes her comfortable and she can be physically dominant.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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