"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Do you think men that had fat mothers have been conditioned to accept fat women as romantic partners?
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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I cant really tell about your question, in my case definitely not but it may be the case for those guys stuck who never had a chance to develop their own adult personality while young.
i dont like fat girls cause my D dont go hard and because i feel weird showing public with such people, no idea why but i have no control over this
also
depends on their friends and families
fat friends? fat acceptance
fat family? fat acceptance
friends saying every girl under 7/10 (big dave?) is ugly ? fat shaming
lets make fat-mom-shaming club
LMAO
one more aspect, why would fat girl be worth of boyfriend with greek god body?
depends, do he want to bang his mom? that normally would mean a guy with that certain complex, and then want to get someone who could fit the bill who looks like his mom
you know very well its not how it work or goes, you pull what you can, no way i'm the small kind of guy, i'm hard to be fit but i'm not weak, so following what you say would mean I would never pull slim girls, with I do most, every once in a blue moon I could pull a more bigger breasted and big ass girl, but its more for she still had a cute face
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
Sometimes they want a fat guy. He makes her comfortable and she can be physically dominant.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.