manbearpig
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I have a friend who is this way, and I just wanted to get you guys' opinions on this.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Do you think its weird/unnatural for a guy to prefer taller chicks?
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
strams4ever
Don Juan
Do I think its wierd that a guy likes tall chicks? Hell no.. Do I think its wierd you question your "friends" taste in girls? Yessir..
manbearpig
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My "friend" is me. I was just kind of embaressed, I thought maybe it was weird for a guy to like chicks taller than him.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
I believe it was Rollo T who said it best:
All women are the same hight when they are on their knees, on all four and on their back.
So you see it doesn't really matter how tall/short she is when it counts most.
All women are the same hight when they are on their knees, on all four and on their back.
So you see it doesn't really matter how tall/short she is when it counts most.