Do you think it's typical for fat women who lose weight to dump hubby?

[MatureDJ]

I was listening to this video by YouTube philosopher Aaron Clarey respond to a man whose wife lost 100# and now wants a divorce, and it got me thinking:

My opinion: It would seem that a formerly fat woman gains Sexual Market Value by losing the weight, and therefore she comes to realize that she could attract a better man that she had been able to attract back when she was fat. This seems to be an analogy to a Regular Joe becoming very successful or otherwise famous, and deciding to ditch the wife that was at the limit of what he could attract back when he was a nobody, since his current limit could attain a much better (i.e., younger, hooter, etc.) wife. A man like Donald Trump (even before becoming CinC) seem to be indicative of this type of man.

 

[lizardking82]

I don't know where I read this, I cannot remember, but it was in a men's forum somewhere and it absolutely hit me in a lot of aspects and I will share it with you since I have observed it to be true in many cases:

When a major event happens in a woman's life, meaning when she for example goes from high school to university, or when she leaves university and gets a job OR in this case, when she transforms herself this drastically by losing 100 pounds, they tend to start a new "chapter" in their life and at this time, they tend to leave people associated with them in the "past chapter", meaning people from high school mostly do not "qualify" to be in her life of university and people of university do not qualify to be in her "career life". Now in this case, we have a woman whose husband does not qualify to be in her life of "after losing weight". Weird things, but it's quite often that happens so be careful of a woman that's undergoing a major change in her life.

Maybe it's the same for men, I don;'t know.

 

[Von]

I don't know where I read this, I cannot remember, but it was in a men's forum somewhere and it absolutely hit me in a lot of aspects and I will share it with you since I have observed it to be true in many cases:

When a major event happens in a woman's life, meaning when she for example goes from high school to university, or when she leaves university and gets a job OR in this case, when she transforms herself this drastically by losing 100 pounds, they tend to start a new "chapter" in their life and at this time, they tend to leave people associated with them in the "past chapter", meaning people from high school mostly do not "qualify" to be in her life of university and people of university do not qualify to be in her "career life". Now in this case, we have a woman whose husband does not qualify to be in her life of "after losing weight". Weird things, but it's quite often that happens so be careful of a woman that's undergoing a major change in her life.

Maybe it's the same for men, I don;'t know.

You are right.

I see it alot in finance when break-ups/divorce/death happens.

They start a inner questioning.. and feel you don't appeal to their current emotional need of "protection/confort/caring" versus "i wanna move on with my life and have to removed any bad feeling or things that might remind me of...".. you will lose the client.

When its à breakup/divorce especially if you were introduce by the lover... you are 90% done.

When its a passing (death).. it's 50%.

Its her concept of "self" changed... and she knows you either haven't evolved or you remain associated with the "bad past"

 

[lizardking82]

To add a personal example, my girlfriend of 2 years, the last one I had, left me 2 weeks before she started university. Of course it was not the only reason, but it just cannot be a coincidence. Probably, a good part of her felt like I belonged with the "high school" time of her life, go figure LOL