"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Do you think it's the current dating-wasteland zeitgeist why a military officer like General Jim Mattis was not able to secure a wife?

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I was thinking about some military-officer ancestors of mine (who obviously figured out how to wife up a gal, LOL) and George Washington, and then a SecDef in the '10s who was a "confirmed bachelor", and it got me thinking.
I think that in the past, the zeitgeist was that a military officer was in high demand, no matter how unhandsome he was (Washington was certainly not a "pretty boy"), and such a man didn't need to figure out how to "excite" a woman by whatever combination of JesterMaxxing & Game that is required today. However, this distinguished military man ("one of the most urbane and polished men I have known" according to colleagues) had the misfortune of being in the transition to the current wasteland zeitgeist while being short, unhandsome and completely unaware of game (even though he was trained in the USMC to a be a competent leader of heart-breakers & life-takers) as well, so it just never worked out for him.

Also, I think this zeitgeist transition period saw the era of the fat wife on the Homefront as well (it seemed for a while that just about every GI I'd ever meet had a fat wife). I would imagine that most GIs are just incels like everyone else, but I can't see how a man could be motivated to put himself in harm's way if even a fat woman is unattainable - I predict that this will utterly tank military recruitment for all but the most gung-ho.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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