“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Do you think it's the current dating-wasteland zeitgeist why a military officer like General Jim Mattis was not able to secure a wife?

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I was thinking about some military-officer ancestors of mine (who obviously figured out how to wife up a gal, LOL) and George Washington, and then a SecDef in the '10s who was a "confirmed bachelor", and it got me thinking.
I think that in the past, the zeitgeist was that a military officer was in high demand, no matter how unhandsome he was (Washington was certainly not a "pretty boy"), and such a man didn't need to figure out how to "excite" a woman by whatever combination of JesterMaxxing & Game that is required today. However, this distinguished military man ("one of the most urbane and polished men I have known" according to colleagues) had the misfortune of being in the transition to the current wasteland zeitgeist while being short, unhandsome and completely unaware of game (even though he was trained in the USMC to a be a competent leader of heart-breakers & life-takers) as well, so it just never worked out for him.

Also, I think this zeitgeist transition period saw the era of the fat wife on the Homefront as well (it seemed for a while that just about every GI I'd ever meet had a fat wife). I would imagine that most GIs are just incels like everyone else, but I can't see how a man could be motivated to put himself in harm's way if even a fat woman is unattainable - I predict that this will utterly tank military recruitment for all but the most gung-ho.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

Read more...

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