"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Do you think it's possible for an incel-tier man to win the White House?

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I was reading about this obscure candidate doing well in the recent debate, and it got me thinking:
I don't think we've had a conventionally unattractive POTUS since Jimmy Carter (bless his heart). Although Gerald Ford was bald, he was most assuredly an uber-Chad in his youth. Nixon was also a bit incel-tier, and definitely gave off a creepy vibe, but he had good political game, LOL. LBJ was too tall to be incel-tier. JFK was like a Greek god who oozed Alpha charm. Ike was a war hero who made decisions costing millions of lives, one way or another.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I was reading about this obscure candidate doing well in the recent debate, and it got me thinking:
I don't think we've had a conventionally unattractive POTUS since Jimmy Carter (bless his heart). Although Gerald Ford was bald, he was most assuredly an uber-Chad in his youth. Nixon was also a bit incel-tier, and definitely gave off a creepy vibe, but he had good political game, LOL. LBJ was too tall to be incel-tier. JFK was like a Greek god who oozed Alpha charm. Ike was a war hero who made decisions costing millions of lives, one way or another.
He's not a incel. He's a man worth nearly a quarter of a billion dollars who founded two public companies an sold them to the public. Then, he became a three term rep. He will not win the primary, but he's certainly not an incel.
 

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He's not a incel. He's a man worth nearly a quarter of a billion dollars who founded two public companies an sold them to the public. Then, he became a three term rep. He will not win the primary, but he's certainly not an incel.
I meant looks-wise, he's incel-tier. Yes, at that level of wealth, no one is incel. :rolleyes:
 

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Nixon chauffeured his future wife when she went on dates with other men. He was borderline incel.

JFK was a stallion, for sure. Ford was built like a brick sh!thouse and could have played pro football - he was a handsome devil.

Reagan called his wife "mommy," which doesn't mean he was an incel but always struck me as odd and made me lose respect for the man.

FWIW, Ike cheated on his wife, so he was in demand, at least. Heck even FDR cheated, and the man had polio.

Anyway, I guess it's the same as having a cad in the White House. Can he do the job? That's what matters.
No one knows this for sure. Also, different times where men were men and ladies were not promiscuous *****s. But you know what, they were something none of us will ever be. PRESIDENT OF THE UNITED STATES.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Heterosexual men should not be voting democrat, ever....
 

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I don't think there's a president in recent memory who hasn't been called a beta by multiple posters on this forum.
 
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I was reading about this obscure candidate doing well in the recent debate, and it got me thinking:
I don't think we've had a conventionally unattractive POTUS since Jimmy Carter (bless his heart). Although Gerald Ford was bald, he was most assuredly an uber-Chad in his youth. Nixon was also a bit incel-tier, and definitely gave off a creepy vibe, but he had good political game, LOL. LBJ was too tall to be incel-tier. JFK was like a Greek god who oozed Alpha charm. Ike was a war hero who made decisions costing millions of lives, one way or another.
Trump would be an incel if not for his money
 

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No one knows this for sure. Also, different times where men were men and ladies were not promiscuous *****s. But you know what, they were something none of us will ever be. PRESIDENT OF THE UNITED STATES.
I wonder if we'll ever see an incel in high politics. I guess that at some point along the political path, there is enough decent action about that the necessary political wife can always be garnered ... but in today's situation? Tinder ad: [ 5'5". US Senator ] (chicks swipe left as usual at incel-tier man).
 

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I wonder if we'll ever see an incel in high politics. I guess that at some point along the political path, there is enough decent action about that the necessary political wife can always be garnered ... but in today's situation? Tinder ad: [ 5'5". US Senator ] (chicks swipe left as usual at incel-tier man).
Only multi-millionaires and billionaires become powerful government officials. No chance. Since they are elected mostly by the ladies (they vote more then dudes), a lady (or feminazi) wouldn't want an incel or spineless coward as a rep or head of State. Secretly, every lady that talks insane amount of sh!t about President Trump would fvck him in a nanosecond... Don't kid yourself on this. AOC, Polosey, etc. would all jump him in a nanosecond; then go back to their craziness. I see Sen. Corey Booker eyeing President Trump too. Though, I do not think President Trump literly fvcks with the gays in that way.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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If the standard goes down low enough, then in theory yes, the likes of him, Buttigieg, etc could become the POTUS someday.

Anyone can become the President if they can anchor themselves in the public eye enough. Donald Trump managed to do so without even being a politician, so an "incel" who somehow gains enough popularity getting nominated surely isn't out of the question.
 

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Simple answer: no

Politics is a brutal sport, as in business or anything else that revolves around status.
 
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