"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Do you think if a woman walks past a bunch of hard hats and doesn't get cat-called, that she will intentionally walk past again?

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I was reading this, and it got me interested:

http://gawker.com/5979679/id-do-her-a-brief-history-of-michael-bloombergs-public-sexism

I know for a fact that any self-respecting woman who walks past a construction site and doesn't get a whistle will turn around and walk past again and again until she does get one.
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my opinion: I tend to believe this; even though women on the surface say they don't like to get "demeaned", I think the inner hamster realizes that these cat-calls reinforce her understanding that she has sexual power.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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no. Most hate it, since they been bombarded on a daily basis on how beautiful they look. Women IMO would care less if they get whistle at. They care more about their younger women competitors.
 
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marvinlfloresq said:
Most hate it, since they been bombarded on a daily basis on how beautiful they look. Women IMO would care less if they get whistle at. They care more about their younger women competitors.
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Yes, yes, poor women, always being told how gorgeous they are. Life is so hard, I feel so sorry for them. If women are that insecure at heart, and if they are really worried about younger competitors, you'd think they would learn to appreciate being appreciated.
 
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zekko said:
Yes, yes, poor women, always being told how gorgeous they are. Life is so hard, I feel so sorry for them. If women are that insecure at heart, and if they are really worried about younger competitors, you'd think they would learn to appreciate being appreciated.
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I dated a stripper, so heres what I know-
They hate being whistle at or told they are hot. I am not saying feel sorry for anybody.
I honestly had this conversation. They cant apreciate what AFC give them for free. By 15 years old, they know more then you would think.

Women are competing with themselves. In short, they dont care and would not come back to get cat called, whistle, or shout at.
In this occasion they are not insecure buddy, they are shallow. Women operate differently.
 
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