"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Do you think if a woman walks past a bunch of hard hats and doesn't get cat-called, that she will intentionally walk past again?

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I was reading this, and it got me interested:

http://gawker.com/5979679/id-do-her-a-brief-history-of-michael-bloombergs-public-sexism

I know for a fact that any self-respecting woman who walks past a construction site and doesn't get a whistle will turn around and walk past again and again until she does get one.
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my opinion: I tend to believe this; even though women on the surface say they don't like to get "demeaned", I think the inner hamster realizes that these cat-calls reinforce her understanding that she has sexual power.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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no. Most hate it, since they been bombarded on a daily basis on how beautiful they look. Women IMO would care less if they get whistle at. They care more about their younger women competitors.
 
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marvinlfloresq said:
Most hate it, since they been bombarded on a daily basis on how beautiful they look. Women IMO would care less if they get whistle at. They care more about their younger women competitors.
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Yes, yes, poor women, always being told how gorgeous they are. Life is so hard, I feel so sorry for them. If women are that insecure at heart, and if they are really worried about younger competitors, you'd think they would learn to appreciate being appreciated.
 
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zekko said:
Yes, yes, poor women, always being told how gorgeous they are. Life is so hard, I feel so sorry for them. If women are that insecure at heart, and if they are really worried about younger competitors, you'd think they would learn to appreciate being appreciated.
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I dated a stripper, so heres what I know-
They hate being whistle at or told they are hot. I am not saying feel sorry for anybody.
I honestly had this conversation. They cant apreciate what AFC give them for free. By 15 years old, they know more then you would think.

Women are competing with themselves. In short, they dont care and would not come back to get cat called, whistle, or shout at.
In this occasion they are not insecure buddy, they are shallow. Women operate differently.
 
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