"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Do you think I did the right thing

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Well I finally met a chick that could hold my interest.....things were going well and I thought we both were enjoying time with each other. Anyway to make a long story short i found out she met up with some guy. I found out and basically said im done with the whole situation. True we werent bf and gf but I just found it very disrespectful to me.

If she had any interest in me why on earth would she go see another dude? There is reason to believe that she was taking me for granted.

I did the cold walk away because i didnt know what else to do. What would you guys have done? I'm done tolerating bullshyt with females. i refuse to let them walk on me.

Any input would be great so that I can learn from this experience. Shes also about an 8 if that matters.

Regards,

John
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I would have done the exact same thing.

What else are you gonna do... hang around, so she can pull that sh!t again? I bet she never dreamed in a million years you'd walk away at the drop of a hat. Serves her right, IMO.

And this, of course, is assuming you two are/were exclusive.
 
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Im normally not that bothered....because i would do the same thing to her. I would prob do that.....I would find out she is sleeping with another guy....oh yeah i forgot to tell you im sleeping with 2 other girls.

Anything goes until a relationship is exclusive.....dont forget that....I would only cold walk for sure if she lied about it. I can take a girl sleeping with another guy but i dont take lieing....

Depends on your morals and veiws i guess.....
 
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Alright thanks for replying back; I don’t feel as bad now. I'm done with wasting my time on girls that like keeping guys hanging around. As I’m getting older its easier to know what I’m looking for in a women. If she does something that sets a red flag up early I’m done. I’m not waiting for all the other red flags to pop up… one is enough to make me realize its not going to work out.

I have done the whole hanging around thing in the past and the results were not worth it IMO. I thought I was being a little harsh but now I realize my actions were justifiable.


-John
 
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